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2025 Challenge - Regular > 24 - A Book with a Happily Single Woman Protagonist

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message 1: by Nadine in NY (last edited Dec 02, 2024 11:43AM) (new)

Nadine in NY Jones | 10030 comments Mod
A book with a happily single woman protagonist.

I'm a wee bit embarrassed to say that this one is going to be tough for me. I AM a "happily single woman" but I can't think of a book on my TBR that fits!! Perhaps this is one that I will need to wait to discover by chance?

I have read two pretty great books this year that I will add to the Listopia:

Margo's Got Money Troubles - possibly my favorite book of the year! Margo starts out in a relationship, but he dumps her when she gets pregnant, and she spends the rest of the book being happily single.

The Teller of Small Fortunes - the protagonist of this cozy fantasy travels the country alone, until she slowly gathers a group of friends who join her. This is a strong "found family" vibe, but she remains happily single throughout.


Listopia list is Here: A Book with a Happily Single Woman Protagonist


message 2: by Dubhease (new)

Dubhease | 724 comments Is Miss Marple happily single? I only read one mystery that she solved and I don't think she commented on the fact that she never got married.


message 3: by Conny (new)

Conny | 154 comments Yes, Miss Marple is a spinster and it has been made very clear by Agatha Christie that she has indeed never been married, and not for lack of opportunity. I guess you could indeed call her happily single!


message 4: by Chelsea (new)

Chelsea (chelseanotchels) | 64 comments Does anyone know if Convenience Store Woman works here? The summary mentions OTHER people wanting her to get married, but that doesn't mean she does.

Or if anyone has read it, Full Fathom Five? This was on a list of books with female characters and no romance and was already on my TBR, but that doesn't mean the character doesn't want to be partnered.


CrystalIsReading on StoryGraph (crystalsea24) | 57 comments Chelsea wrote: "Does anyone know if Convenience Store Woman works here? The summary mentions OTHER people wanting her to get married, but that doesn't mean she does.

Or if anyone has read it, [boo..."


I love Convenience Store Woman and think it would totally fit here. She is happy without a relationship, and unhappy when others try to force her into one. very ace and aro coded, as well as neurodivergent.


message 6: by Ashley Marie (new)

Ashley Marie  | 1028 comments Ooooh I hope we get a new Harmony Black book in 2025, she would totally count for this!


message 7: by Nike (new)

Nike | 67 comments Conny wrote: "Yes, Miss Marple is a spinster and it has been made very clear by Agatha Christie that she has indeed never been married, and not for lack of opportunity. I guess you could indeed call her happily ..."

Miss Marple is single because her one true love was killed in the war and after that she was never interested in any other man. But she lives a happy life.


message 8: by Nike (new)

Nike | 67 comments CrystalIsReading on Storygraph wrote: "Chelsea wrote: "Does anyone know if Convenience Store Woman works here? The summary mentions OTHER people wanting her to get married, but that doesn't mean she does.

Or if anyone h..."


Oh, yes - such a good book! And it would definitely fit this prompt.


message 9: by Denise (new)

Denise | 420 comments Convenience Store Woman is great for this, and so is Lessons in Chemistry (she starts off in a relationship, but for most of the book she isn't in one). I'll have to search for one I haven't read yet.


message 10: by Jackie (new)

Jackie | 753 comments This will be a fun one to add to the list through the year - I read a lot of mysteries and while many of them feature women protagonists, most of them feel the need to give her a romantic interest.


message 11: by Erica (new)

Erica | 1298 comments The Cat + Gamer series works so far, I’m only two volumes in.


message 12: by JannetRiddle (last edited Dec 28, 2024 05:22AM) (new)

JannetRiddle | 1 comments If you are looking for a book about a happy single woman, I recommend paying attention to "The Night Circus" by Erin Morgenstern. Although the focus is on the magical circus and the complex relationships between the characters. One of the strengths of the book is the disclosure of the theme of personal freedom and inner independence. Although I have been looking for a book lately too. I just have time to read something. I found a writing service for one of my problems, I used https://ca.edubirdie.com/lab-report-w... for this. I have not yet found a book for myself. I always want to find something like this. But it never works out.


message 13: by Lyssa131330 (new)

Lyssa131330 | 6 comments Any of Terry Pratchett’s Discworld books with the witches would count for this - Granny Weatherwax is happily single by choice


message 14: by Denise (last edited Dec 19, 2024 01:55PM) (new)

Denise | 427 comments Two from the listopia I’d like to read are:
Lolly Willowes
Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail
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message 15: by Ron (new)

Ron | 2769 comments Playing it simple by going with one on the list. I've read it before but it's been years:

Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail


message 16: by Diana (new)

Diana (candystripelegs) | 258 comments This really is a tough one. I think The Once and Future Witches would work. I seem to remember one of the sisters having no interest in relationships or dating.


message 18: by Nadine in NY (new)

Nadine in NY Jones | 10030 comments Mod
I just finished The Road Trip for my "road trip" book, and one of the four main characters is a happily single woman.

I started out loving the book and ended up feeling not so great about it, for reasons: it's a second chance romance, and the Big Reason they broke up the first time is that (view spoiler)


message 19: by Denise (new)

Denise | 427 comments I read The Whisper Sister Jennifer S. Brown. She is being pushed to get married, but chooses not to.


message 20: by Diane (new)

Diane (runnerdm) | 7 comments Madam. Phoebe Wynne. Could go in a couple of other categories but let’s put it here.


message 21: by Rachel (new)

Rachel | 113 comments I’ve just finished the audiobook of The Great Witches Baking Show by Nancy Warren, and can confirm that Poppy, the protagonist, is happily single throughout.

I’ve looked at the Goodreads synopsis for the other books in the series (9 in total): it seems like a secret admirer makes an appearance in book 6, and then there’s a very slow burn romance after that. So books 1-5 would definitely fit this prompt, for anyone who likes cosy mysteries and the Great British Bake Off.


message 22: by Megan (new)

Megan | 364 comments Diana wrote: "This really is a tough one. I think The Once and Future Witches would work. I seem to remember one of the sisters having no interest in relationships or dating."

Not that you asked but I REALLY enjoyed that book and hope you do too!


message 23: by Michele (new)

Michele Olson | 151 comments Through Streets Broad and Narrow by Gemma Jackson fits this prompt perfectly.


message 24: by Carla (new)

Carla M (iamkarlamata) | 10 comments I was thinking that maybe "Last Tang Standing" by Lauren Ho could fit the prompts: "A book with a happily single woman protagonist" (at least she starts single and happy, don't know how it finishes, haven't read it) and "A book about POC experiencing joy and not trauma", would you agree?

Thanks in advance!


message 25: by Theresa (new)

Theresa | 2461 comments Kinsey Milhone in Sue Grafton's mystery series is happily single - first is A Is for Alibi.


message 26: by Theresa (new)

Theresa | 2461 comments @Nadine - thanks for tip on Margo's Got Money Troubles! A client gave it to me for Christmas!


message 27: by Joanna G (new)

Joanna G (joanna_g) | 388 comments Just read Persepolis 2: The Story of a Return. Towards the end, the grandmother mentions that she got divorced 51 years ago because she'd rather be single than put up with that.

She's definitely not the protagonist, just one of the characters, but I thought I'd mention it.


message 28: by Andrea (new)

Andrea | 1 comments I read Sourdough by Robin Sloan for this prompt. Sourdough

The protagonist is a tech professional, single, seems happy with her life. Changes it up a bit but ultimately upbeat. Plus I think it's a cute story.


message 29: by Laura (new)

Laura Bierck | 4 comments Has anyone read The Mostly True Story of Tanner and Louise? Are either of them happily single?


message 30: by Diana (new)

Diana (candystripelegs) | 258 comments Megan wrote: "Diana wrote: "This really is a tough one. I think The Once and Future Witches would work. I seem to remember one of the sisters having no interest in relationships or dating."

Not ..."


Thanks! I appreciate the input! I like seeing if someone enjoys all these suggestions or not. Alix Harrow has quickly become on of my favorite writers.


message 31: by Joanna G (new)

Joanna G (joanna_g) | 388 comments Found one that I'm going to use: Killers of a Certain Age

Why, if people want to brave spoilers: (view spoiler)


message 32: by Kara (new)

Kara (madhatter360) | 55 comments Joanna G wrote: "Found one that I'm going to use: Killers of a Certain Age

Why, if people want to brave spoilers: [spoilers removed]"


Oh excellent! I read this one a while ago but I just got the sequel from the library. Glad I can slot it in.


message 33: by Sasha (new)

Sasha  Wolf (sashajwolf) | 290 comments I started reading A Daughter of Fair Verona for this, but didn't really feel that it fitted the prompt. I DNF'd it at 26%, as it wasn't really my style of book.

I will probably use The Emperor's Soul for this prompt instead. I haven't finished it yet, but at 79% there's no whiff of marriage or romance or any sign that the MC thinks her situation would be improved by having a partner. Fingers crossed!


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message 35: by Laura Ruth (new)

Laura Ruth Loomis | 385 comments I went with This American Ex-Wife: How I Ended My Marriage and Started My Life, a memoir/polemic by Lyz Lenz.


message 36: by Anshita (new)

Anshita (_book_freak) | 272 comments I'm listening to Convenience Store Woman by Sayaka Murata. I found this book on the listopia. The blurb reads, "Convenience Store Woman is the heartwarming and surprising story of thirty-six-year-old Tokyo resident Keiko Furukura. Keiko has never fit in, neither in her family, nor in school, but when at the age of eighteen she begins working at the Hiiromachi branch of “Smile Mart,” she finds peace and purpose in her life. In the store, unlike anywhere else, she understands the rules of social interaction ― many are laid out line by line in the store’s manual ― and she does her best to copy the dress, mannerisms, and speech of her colleagues, playing the part of a “normal” person excellently, more or less. Managers come and go, but Keiko stays at the store for eighteen years. It’s almost hard to tell where the store ends and she begins. Keiko is very happy, but the people close to her, from her family to her coworkers, increasingly pressure her to find a husband, and to start a proper career, prompting her to take desperate action…"


message 37: by Alice (new)

Alice | 7 comments Hi all! Does anyone know if "Carrie Soto Is Back" by Taylor Jenkins Reid would work for this prompt? I saw it on the Listopia for the happily single female protagonist prompt, but I thought the main character goes through a romance at some point in the plot? Thanks!


message 39: by Dubhease (new)

Dubhease | 724 comments I read Jane and the Unpleasantness at Scargrave Manor. It was a fun mystery written in the style of Jane Austen with her as a detective.


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