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Just a place to vent about anything happening in your life that you want to talk about ♡

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I’ll be using this a lot…👀

I accidentally joined the group and I’m not a swiftie. Can anyone remove me cause I’m really stuck please?

Sure :)

Yeah that sounds really hard

yeah I get that I haven't really had friends I could talk to about anything since I was like 7 but that was before I had actual problems

I don't get why as soon as your old enough to have real problems that you need to talk about that's when it's harder to find friends and friends leave you but then you need to talk about that with a friend but you realize you don't have any (literally my life)

yeah lol when I was 8 was when everything sort of fell apart

I constantly wish I was 7 again it was definitely my best year

yeah

Yess I keep waking up through the night and going to sleep late bc I’m not tired

Sameee

Both of my sisters cant sleep the whole night either! I've always been a great sleeper (I slept through a tornado one time and had to be shaken awake), but the rest of my family wakes up like 6 times throughout the night every single night lol.

oh wow I used to wake up a lot in the night but lately ive been so tired that i just sleep throught the whole night

(if you didnt see my profile pic is a dare)

Real

I’m waiting for my bio results but on my History exam I got a 96%!!!! I was rlly happy bc it was kinda hard!

Wow nice!! Good job!

Thank you!!!

im so sorry

i'm really sorry, we're all here for you and that sounds really hard

You're welcome :)

my disgusting little sister purposely cracks the spines I hate it so freaking much I just wanna ban her from reading

😭😭😭😭NOOOOO NOT THE SPINES.

i can if you want :)

I think im actually kinda cooked because I think I have a crush on my best friends ex 😭

oh no 😭

abby {mystery's version} wrote: "I think im actually kinda cooked because I think I have a crush on my best friends ex 😭"

how long ago was it when they were dating?

I just feel so sad because this guy that I work with (for context I volunteer at a library during the summer) is so mean to me for no reason like fully bullying me Like I walked in for my shift today and he was like "a little piece of my soul just died when I saw you come in Jaida" And one time he was saying something I don't really remember but Hitler came up so he was like "you know who Hitler is Jaida?" I was like " yeah do you think I'm stupid" and then he seriously said yes I do Jaida This boy also says my name like a lot and says I'm annoying and that all my coworkers should just ignore me and then today he made me cry I actually went to the bathroom and cried in there and my boss actually got mad at me for being bullied She was like " I'm putting my foot down your asking leading questions like why are you so mean you have to companionable" I just don't know what to do I have to work with on Friday Am I just being dramatic?

Oh no I’m sorry he sounds like a jerk <3 you’re not being dramatic and it’s definitely not your fault. Have you talked to you’re boss about it one on one or was it mainly just her seeing what was happening?

I've tried to talk to her about it but she doesn't seem to really care much and it just keeps getting worse and i don't know what to do.

Ew he’s a jerk. I would just completely ignore him. If he gives you crap, give him silence. That’ll make him stop, bc if he can’t get a reaction from you, he won’t want to pick on you anymore. He’s an idiot. You’re amazing don’t listen to him.

Aww thank you Anna I'll try it's just hard because he follows me around like a puppy

Honestly, this sounds weird, but he might have a crush on you. Some guys suck at flirting, so they tease instead, and he’s just harsher than he should be, and doesn’t realize that you’re sensitive. So if you find that it’s too hard to ignore him, maybe confront him? I know that scary lol, but it’s worth a shot. If I’m right and he has a crush on you, he’ll feel really bad for hurting your feelings.

yeah I've thought maybe he dose cause he says my name like a lot like in every sentence also so that's weird

That’s also a sign! And why wouldn’t he like you? You’re awesome, girl!!!! But yeah, he probably sucks at flirting and ends up hurting your feelings instead of making you like him 😭

I wouldn't like him he's super mean and kinda looks like a girl lol

Lolllll then you’ll have to reject him lmao

guys I'm sorry to bring the mood down but I just don't want to even be in this world anymore. my family is just so mad at me for covering my ears When there was a lot of noise and I can't help it (I'm high functioning autistic) and I just hate my life so much sometimes it's so hard because people in my family constantly tell me to stop doing stuff that I genuinely can't help I'm constantly masking (masking means like hiding all the autistic things I do like flapping my hands and pacing) what should I do guys I just feel like no one in this world Cares about me

i'd suggest finding the people who care about you and spending more time with them, i know it actually feels like there is no one who does but trust me there are, you just have to look hard enough and focus on positive thoughts rather than negative ones <3

@ Sai thank you

also I should clarify I don't want to die just not be in this world.

⊹ ࣪ ˖ wrote: "guys I'm sorry to bring the mood down but I just don't want to even be in this world anymore. my family is just so mad at me for covering my ears When there was a lot of noise and I can't help it (..."

aww I’m sorry, you’re parents shouldn’t get mad about that… honestly, I would say it’s best to just try to find someone who understands, even though I know that might be possible… I kind of relate to some of that a lot, and I really hope things get better for you <33

thanks Ava

I’m so sorry girl. You shouldn’t have to mask who you are in front of your loved ones, and that sucks. Try finding people who make you feel confident in your own skin, people who help you to love yourself. Things will get better, I promise ❤️‍🩹

I mostly mask in public but in front of my family too just not as much

⊹ ࣪ ˖ wrote: "@ Sai thank you

also I should clarify I don't want to die just not be in this world."

@jaida always :)

I am so sorry. I relate so much with what youre saying and i understand how that makes you feel. Remember there is nothing wrong with what you do, so dont yell or get into bad arguments. Just explain why youre doing it and try to keep your calm, if they dont get it its their fault. Maybe talking about this with your friends or if you have someone who understands you would make you feel better. I hope this helped even just a little and know that you can talk to me whenever you want

can someone tell me y my friends r judging me for liking someone who is at least 15 yrs older than me?!? I need better friends

I’m just going to say… if it’s a real person irl… a 15 year age gap is waaaaayyy too much and if you’re a minor and they’re older that would honestly be disgusting for them to like you back. It’s okay to like them, and your friends shouldn’t be rude about it but I kinda get it

I do tooo