CHAOS FOR TEENS ONLY discussion

Because we've all had them...

I've never actually dated anyone... but i've had failed crushes and failed friendships

oh wow... I'm just saying you probably shouldn't trust someone who cheated on your best friend

Ava ౨ৎ (Semi hiatus) wrote: "I've never actually dated anyone... but i've had failed crushes and failed friendships"

Well I've failed multiple friendships but in the end u always have at least one friend that stays til the end

nope not true nope nope nope

Nell (the chaotic girl with sarcasm version) wrote: "I was cheated one and am now in a stable relationship with the guy who cheated on me best friend"

Ummm.... That sounds like a good book plot... as long as it's stable I guess

sorry i've never had a best friend or a close friend who actually stayed and wasn't extremely toxic aside from one who i was only friends with for a year and wasnt that close with

Well my bf in highschool cheated on me with my bsf so I cheated on him with his bsf... Honestly not my best life choice but it coulda been worst.

Nell (the chaotic girl with sarcasm version) wrote: "Ava ౨ৎ (Semi hiatus) wrote: "sorry i've never had a best friend or a close friend who actually stayed and wasn't extremely toxic aside from one who i was only friends with for a year and wasnt that..."

Absolutely not!!! I have loyalty all the way thro my blood... I'm a scorpio and we take care of other people excpecially our friends

Nell (the chaotic girl with sarcasm version) wrote: "lilith wrote: "Well my bf in highschool cheated on me with my bsf so I cheated on him with his bsf... Honestly not my best life choice but it coulda been worst."

Ope we love the pay back move you go"

yeah... I didn't really like doing it bc I'm normally loyal but it wasn't right for him to do that and pay back sounded nice at the time.

lilith wrote: "Nell (the chaotic girl with sarcasm version) wrote: "Ava ౨ৎ (Semi hiatus) wrote: "sorry i've never had a best friend or a close friend who actually stayed and wasn't extremely toxic aside from one ..."

what do you mean? i actually also have never stopped being friends with a friend on purpose, they always just stop being friends with me i'm a scorpio too lol and actually i am too loyal lol it's kind of unhealthy

Nell (the chaotic girl with sarcasm version) wrote: "lilith wrote: "Nell (the chaotic girl with sarcasm version) wrote: "lilith wrote: "Well my bf in highschool cheated on me with my bsf so I cheated on him with his bsf... Honestly not my best life c..."

oh wow

i'm confused

lol

he said he's scared and you said you should be? I have whos afraid of little old me in my head now

I haven't held anyones hand either 😭 I've told a boy I liked him once but he said we were too young (i mean we were 11 so he had a point...) my delulu self thinks he'll want to date me now since since were older

Nell (the chaotic girl with sarcasm version) wrote: "I have not had my first kiss but abe tried to and also tried to make out with me and I slapped him and gave him a broken nose"

...

ok bye

Nell (the chaotic girl with sarcasm version) wrote: "Ava ౨ৎ (Semi hiatus) wrote: "I haven't held anyones hand either 😭 I've told a boy I liked him once but he said we were too young (i mean we were 11 so he had a point...) my delulu self thinks he'll..."

oh wow

♡ Liv {Secretly In The FBI 🤫} wrote: "OML MY LOVE LIFE IS NON-EXISTENT"

SAMEE (except my marriage to jameson winchester hawthorne hehehe)

sigh.... but xander is also mine...

Ava ౨ৎ (Semi hiatus) wrote: "lilith wrote: "Nell (the chaotic girl with sarcasm version) wrote: "Ava ౨ৎ (Semi hiatus) wrote: "sorry i've never had a best friend or a close friend who actually stayed and wasn't extremely toxic ..."

mine's not just kinda unhealthy mine's to the point were I probably need therapy unhealthy.

lilith wrote: "Ava ౨ৎ (Semi hiatus) wrote: "lilith wrote: "Nell (the chaotic girl with sarcasm version) wrote: "Ava ౨ৎ (Semi hiatus) wrote: "sorry i've never had a best friend or a close friend who actually staye..."

same thats how almost all of my friendships have been 😭 its a problem for sure

♡ Liv {Secretly In The FBI 🤫} wrote: "♡ Liv {Secretly In The FBI 🤫} wrote: "hehehehhe I'm married to his brother Xander"

♡ Liv {Secretly In The FBI 🤫} wrote: "hehehehhe I'm married to his brother Xander"

I'll fight you for him! 🤗"

ok! *throws blueberry scone at you*

We don't talk bout my love life!!!!!

It's way too Existent... if I may.

Well let’s just say I had a childhood crush from kindergarten to 8 grade and we were friends. I though he liked me back and we were kinda a thing. We flirted with each other a lot. He finally “realized” I had had a crush on him 8 grade year and he ghosted me. Then I realized I didn’t like him that way it was just an obsession.
So yeah he called me back a bit after we graduated and apologized for ghosting and prank calling me like 50 times. And I said don’t worry about it. Because I don’t even like him anymore and I don’t care.

@Ashley OKAY QUEEN i’m glad you got over him the fact he ghosted you is not okay so he deserves to not get attention

ellieee ࣪ ⭒ wrote: "@Ashley OKAY QUEEN i’m glad you got over him the fact he ghosted you is not okay so he deserves to not get attention"

Agreed

@lilith yesss

yeah definitely!!

I’m single as a Pringle. And I’m a hopeless romantic who reads too much. I’m doomed.
Also I’ve never experienced love in real life because that was just obsession/ infatuation.

And thanks for the support 😊

GRIFFIN wrote: "Having young relationships are just fun but you aren’t gonna find the love of your life when your like 14 let yourself be a kid have a bf but don’t let it control you and don’t make it your whole l..."

sounds like u speak from experience?

GRIFFIN wrote: "Experience of watching my friends loose their mind over boys just to end up heart broken and feeling like they can’t be thensekves anymore cause they don’t know how to be thensekves without the per..."

that is def fair

Yeah interestingly enough my obsession made me realize I had to focus on myself instead of someone else. When he ghosted me, I realized how much time I wasted thinking about him. Learned a lot about self love and still learning because I’m a perfectionist and have OCD. By the way I play softball and I love to write so I’d rather focus on those two things way more. Softball is my passion and I want to play in college so honestly relationships may not be a thing for me a lot in high school. I need to stay committed to my sport.
Although I wound up being a hopeless romantic, I’m leaving things to the book boyfriends for now. If I meet someone in the later years of high school (like maybe junior, senior more probability) that supports me and we equally support each other I think I may get into a relationship. Thats considering that we’re gonna be our own people and just support each other’s interests/ ideals. Thats what I believe a relationship is.
Worst case, things don’t work out and I have many years left to find my person. My mom and dad met a bit after my mom graduated college so I know that finding your person later in life is possible and a good thing.

Thank you for all the advice and for no harsh judgement on me. I’m just 14, so I’m pretty inexperienced in many things including love and relationships.

So, everyone who is dating someone who cheated with you, remember,

If they cheated with you, then they will probably cheat on you.

Hiii sorry I haven’t been super active in this group I’ve had a lot of exam prep, but I do have a creep story about a guy.


So this wasn’t a real relationship but it was pretty creepy. Awhile back my friend’s brother started texting me, he was 15 and I was 12. I thought that we were just having like funny conversations because again he was my friend’s brother (and I was also 12 and native, so I didn’t think much of it). But then he started texting me like 10 times a day, and eventually he told me that he really liked me. I got kinda creeped out and said that I didn’t really like him like that. Then everything was fine until a few months later when I got snap. He added me and my friend ( his sister) added him back on my phone. He started texting me again and asked if we could be friends (stupid me said yes because I didn’t want to make things messy between me and my friend). I told him that I was NOT interested in him and that we are literally 3 grades apart. Still he kept telling me things like he wanted to camp out in a tent with me and a bunch of other creepy stuff. I got super uncomfortable so I blocked him again on snap. That was a few years ago but the other day he texted me on instagram (which i just got) and asked how I was doing and a few otherthings. I never responded but I feel really bad cuz I know he has a girlfriend and I feel like she should know about what he’s done. (Or am I just being paranoid??)


Sorry for ranting about this btw🫣🫣

oh wow ew thats disgusting, it would be one thing (and still very bad) for him to give it up after the first thing, but the fact that he didn't?!? thats just... i dont even know what to call it

Remove me please

I wanna crash random groups

NELL ( swimmer version) wrote: "Why"

I'm bored and I dunno what to do

yup

hii

same

i still like my ex even though we broke up 3 months ago and i did cut him off completely at some point with support from friends but then he texted me good luck for smth and i havent stopped texting him since and i havent told my friends so he's like another secret AGAIN

AND HIS NAME IS... JOHN CENA!
DUN DUN DUNDUUUUUUUUUN

don't ask-

lmao

Nah his name is ✨Jerome✨