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I would ask, If I need some help :>
That's fine^^
I would ask, If I need some help :>
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Hi I'm Shadow I need some advice I have a friend who's a guy. He's my go to friend(I tell him everything and get it off my chest), but there's something I can't go to him with. I think he likes me more than a best friend and I can't tell if he does. Or if I like him the same way... can you help?
Oh no! I wrote a very long and eloquent reply but then I LOST it!...And I'm much to lazy to rewrite it.
So mostly what I said was... I can't tell you how you feel or how a person I don't even know feels. If you want to take action, I would figure out your feelings first. It's possible to still be friends with a person who is in love with you though. I have a friend whose guy friend is in love with her and they act really close, super friendly, (a bit like a couple actually), even though she turned him down.
If you're going to ask him about his feelings when you're not sure about yours; be blunt. I, personally, think being blunt is less embarrassing than making it dramatic.
I don't like asking a person if they might like someone but they're not sure if they would be sad if their guy dies. That's a stupid question. You're friends, of course you would be sad. I guess a better question would be: Would you have regrets? Would you rather talk to him and get a definite answer, or would you rather this whole thing blow off on its own?
And that's basically the gist of it (I think). I'm not really a love expert, but good luck!
I will ask you If I need some help.
Okay! Need guy help!!!!!!Okay, so i did this volenteer to help watch kids at this day camp thing at my church, and they seperated kids by age and put them in a class room and everything, so i got this cute, super, blonde guy to work with his names, Sam, So i knew deep down inside of me that he liked me, but didn't admit it to myself i became sort of friends with him and he became friends with my brother and on the last day of the day camp
Sam told my brother he liked me and 6 monthes later i saw him again and Sam told me that he liked me and i had liked him too, but had shut my feelings for him away and they soon dissapeared.
So when he told me he liked me i didn't know that i didn't like him anymore and told him i returned his feelings...
So he told me he'd send a Christmas card and got me to give my adress...then he sent a crumy love letter with his phone number and ugh! So then a Christmas card was sent later that month...i don't see him a lot but my brother wants to call him and i'm not ready to tell him i don't like him!
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