Mental Health Awareness Group discussion

Here!! Hope this helps you get stuff off your chest!

Others may comment :)

Barnette ⋆˙⟡ (my girlfriend's version) wrote: "Here!! Hope this helps you get stuff off your chest!

Others may comment :)"

thank you!!!

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✧༺ ꪑꪖ​ꪶꪗ ༻✧ wrote: "SIX SEVEENNNN"

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i'm so tired and dizzy all the time. it's not because i don't eat enough or drink enough water or sleep enough. most of the time, i get nine hours of sleep each night. i drink around 80 ounces of water each day and always eat two meals every day. i want to go to the doctor's about it, but i don't want to bother my mom about it because there's already so much that's wrong with me and i don't want to stress her out even more😭

I know what you mean. Ive been going through that lot too, does it help doing something you love doing?

yeah it helps

What hobbies do you have?

i mean reading obviously, i play guitar and piano, and i sing

uh that's really it though😭

You sing? I do too! What do you like singing?

i sing songs by artists i like, personally, i think my voice best suits chappell roan or conan gray, so i sing their songs a lot😭 what about you

Ahaaa sounds good
I love singing songs by Billie Eilish
I'm actually singing at a school show soon, I'm gonna sing Snowman by Sia

ahhh good luck!!!

Thank you! (btw this is my alt)

this is so overstimulating. i don’t know how much longer i can sit in a room full of people. its stressing me out.

Oh no, I feel your pain, socialising is so stressing, especially with loads of people at once <3 Hope you get through it and have a wonderful evening/day after all <33

୨୧ ☆ﾟ.*･｡ﾟ serenityy ﾟ｡･*.☆ ୨୧ wrote: "i'm so tired and dizzy all the time. it's not because i don't eat enough or drink enough water or sleep enough. most of the time, i get nine hours of sleep each night. i drink around 80 ounces of w..."

Late reply! But that's horrible ml I'm so sorry your going through this. I understand it can be hard to eat and drink. And that's really tough that your worrying about telling your mom you need help. Just remember your mental health SHOULD be your moms top priority and don't you think she would be more proud you came to her than worried?

@nova i mean i guess it should be? but also she has two little kids she has to worry about and there’s already so many things that she has to buy just to keep me healthy and comfortable.

on another note, i’m lowkey questioning my sexuality. i identify as pansexual, but i can’t see myself marrying a man. i can only see myself dating a man, and even then, i can’t really see myself dating a man long term. idk if i can even identify as pansexual anymore because of that???

Have you told her what you experience in detail? Maybe she doesn't understand just how bad it is?

୨୧ ☆ﾟ.*･｡ﾟ serenityy ﾟ｡･*.☆ ୨୧ wrote: "on another note, i’m lowkey questioning my sexuality. i identify as pansexual, but i can’t see myself marrying a man. i can only see myself dating a man, and even then, i can’t really see myself da..."

You don't need to label yourself, its totally fine to just date and marry whoever you want to and not put yourself into a category. But if you do want to, maybe you should research more specific labels like omni or berrisexual?

@sofie okay so i have brought it up to my mom and she said she’ll set up an appointment as soon as my stepdad gets a job that offers health insurance.

and i’ll definitely look those up. i might just say im unlabeled and go with it.

୨୧ ☆ﾟ.*･｡ﾟ serenityy ﾟ｡･*.☆ ୨୧ wrote: "on another note, i’m lowkey questioning my sexuality. i identify as pansexual, but i can’t see myself marrying a man. i can only see myself dating a man, and even then, i can’t really see myself da..."

If you don't have a specific label, queer is a completely okay term to go by!

Bisexual could be accurate for you - it's attraction to two or more genders with or without preferences, so you can be attracted to men and women (and maybe nonbinary people) but have a preference for women and not want to be with men long term. Just a suggestion!!

Best of luck <33

୨୧ ☆ﾟ.*･｡ﾟ serenityy ﾟ｡･*.☆ ୨୧ wrote: "this is so overstimulating. i don’t know how much longer i can sit in a room full of people. its stressing me out."

I use earbuds with a noise-cancelling mode and they help so much. The brand is QXUFV and they have super long battery life and have a normal mode, transparency mode, and effective noise-canceling mode that are controlled via a screen on the case. Not sure if this helps but it's just a suggestion if they're affordable for you!

These are the specific ones I have: [https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FX9TDK2G?...]

omg thank you so much😭 i just get really overstimulated with so many people in one room, especially on christmas because there’s wrapping paper all over the floor and presents everywhere😭😭

Nwss, as an ADHD person I get that so much!!

Ofc ur problems r valid, i get that feeling
i havent got much advice, maybe try talking to her, try making her realise how he's treating her, and that she deserves better? idk but i feel u. sending hugs <3333

i just babysat my brother's for five and a half hours and cleaned the whole house because my mom and stepdad were on a date.

they got home, and i didn't even get a thank you. i got complaints because i didn't put them to bed soon enough. they went to bed thirty minutes after their bedtime because they wanted to finish a movie.

they never say thank you after i babysit. and i babysit for multiple hours each day. but why would i get a thank you? it's something i'm just supposed to do. even though i miss out on spending time with my dad. even though i have to say no when my friends want to hang out.

Trust me
Thank you’s are not nessesary
I never get any when I help

i don't either😭

But what matters is the fact you are helping and giving a piece of yourself

my stepdad made an unfunny joke about trans people, so i called him out on it and told him that it's not okay. he got mad and told me that i was so hard to talk to and i'm the reason we're not close. my mom came in to talk to me about it and then yelled at me for telling her how i feel. she always takes his side every single time.

I'm so sorry to hear that love, you don't deserve that, I'm here for you if you need anything

i'm so tired of my mom hating my dad and taking it out on me.

all i did was ask if i could go to his house one day early because i have plans on friday so i can't stay at his house and she flipped out on me

then she says sorry and expects me to be fine after she screamed at me about how i "take time away from her" when i want to spend a little bit more time with my dad