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hi! rlly quick question for u

could u maybe not call me my bc my significant other is on this group and I want them to feel comfortable

thanks!

I’m sososo sorry! Of course I won’t call you that anymore. It’s honestly a reflex, I always refer to people with nicknames typically “ml, hun, lovely, gorgeous, etc.” I do it because I feel personal connection with you guys and I’d like to continue calling you nicknames. Are you ok with hun and lovely? If not, please give me ideas because obviously I want you and your partner to be comfortable while also remaining myself because the nicknames I give my friends mean a lot to me, I hope you understand and again, I’m deeply and sincerely sorry for any discomfort or disrespect I may have caused, if anything else comes up please feel free to contact me or have your partner contact me. Again, I’m so so sorry.

omg thank u for understanding

any odd variation of my name or bear!

bear is a fam nickname so im oki with that too

i figured it was a reflected and didnt mean anything by it but i rlly appreciate u for like understanding and being kind

yess ofc, ik sometimes stuff like that can cause problems and if i don’t want anyone to be uncomfortable, thank you for understanding. sometimes when i try to explain why i use nicknames instead of names and if im asked to not use a specific one i tend to over explain unfortunately and some people are just like “ok but just use my name? like i don’t understand why you have to use a nickname” so like thank YOU twin

seriously anytime

communication is so important

i 100% agree, especially seeing first hand what not communicating with people does to relationships, families, and friendships.

yeah definitely

You are now casserole and obi wan cassobi

heheh thats what one of my friends calls me… they call me

- casserole
- cassifer
- cassandra

obi wan cassobi trust

go at it