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Ok so ive "dated" like 3 people but I wouldnt count them so I've really always been single and I mean im only a freshman in hs but lowk I am chopped af and can't pull anyone so I need advice plz

Karigan wrote: "Ok so ive "dated" like 3 people but I wouldnt count them so I've really always been single and I mean im only a freshman in hs but lowk I am chopped af and can't pull anyone so I need advice plz"

babe i wish i could give you some magic recipe to help but im a junior and have never pulled anyone either.....i have never even had a guy interested in me (other than this one legally blind kid from YEARSSSS ago)

putting yourself out there and making connections is always a good way to start forming relationships and meeting new people. it's hard to do but it's worth it :)
especially as a freshman! you have just officially started highschool which mean you have the most time to try new things and participate in new activities.

girlllll you are your own worst critic! you're beautiful and unique! if other people cannot see that, then they are not people you want to have a relationship with! you need to find someone who appreciates you for YOU.

also, remember: you are only in 9th grade. you still have your entire life ahead of you to find your person. i know it can feel like the future is forever away, but it catches up to you quickly loll
don't try to rush into a relationship with someone just because you feel like you're running out of time!

don't be afraid to be yourself and NEVER change your beautiful personality just to fit someone else's idea of how they want you to be. <3

You're so sweet🥲 I wish you the best with relationships and in junior year cause I am well aware the struggles you will go through this year 🫡

Karigan wrote: "You're so sweet🥲 I wish you the best with relationships and in junior year cause I am well aware the struggles you will go through this year 🫡"

<3

awww thnxsss
it's definitely hard not having a bf, or any friends in general, but im making it work :)

I’m a sophomore and I’ve never even kissed anyone…… but that’s bc I have no desire to try and date anyone at all and devote all that energy into something that most likely isn’t going to be very deep or lasting 😅 (also I’m homeschooled)
I’m sticking to my fictional boys ty💅

So I can’t help, but girl, ur so fricken cuteee!!!

I'm a junior and I haven't had that many relationships and none when I was a freshman. One that ended very very oddly with the guy actually hating me for no reason. One with a creep. And one where we were just more friends who said we were dating and are now back to just being friends.

girl i get you. don’t worry like as an 8th grader i’ve liked so many people but not one has ever really liked me back, and that’s okay

Just be you!! I’m personally not wanting a relationship until college-age, but every once in a while, a guy asks me to go out with him just out of the blue. They usually don’t even know me.. JUST BE YOURSELF-or put yourself out there…

Just know this: someone out there has seen you and thought to themself, “ Dang. She’s gorgeous. Should I ask her out?” and just been too afraid to.
It’s happened before. I promise you.

Just be yourself and put yourself out there, don’t be in a rush, there’s someone out there just for you!!! I wish you all the best though.

Also really random but could someone explain to me how the school years work in America like sophomore, junior and freshman (I go to skl in England I’m sorry)

Like what year they are?

I’m homeschooled so this could be incorrect but as far as I’m aware this is how is works:
Freshman is year one of high school and age 15.
Sophomore is year two age 16.
Junior is year three age 17.
Senior is year four age 18.

yes correct @Karigan and @Ever

I'm 12 and I never had a relationship bc im meh and I don't want to be in one that's js DATING TO DATE SOMEONE like no that's direspectful to the word "love" (I'm going to 7th if anyone cares)

so my advice is get a guy that's not afraid to say "oh yeah, Cool as Hell Karigan is my gf" also don't trust my advice

i already commented on this but like i tried dating someone once and it only lasted ONE DAY, so i don’t consider it dating. i get you so much. you’re only a freshman. you don’t HAVE to date rn. i get the longing for love. i feel it too as an 8th grader (13) don’t worry!!! you’ll find the right person one day. maybe not now, but one day. i will be praying for you ❤️

OK FIRST OF ALL YOU'RE GORGEOUS!!!
and tbf u shouldnt let others determine ur worth
honestly just be urself
if it works it works( u r dating!!)
and if it doesnt js let time do its thingggg!! u will find the right person one dayy
u still have ur whole life ahead of u! so dont let "not being able to pull ppl" shit get in ur way!!
u r amazing, pretty and gorgeous( if they cant see that its their fault)

so id say js drown in books and fantasize (and let time do its magic)

ps: its not worth getting ur heartbroken... (if smth does happen it might distract u from schl and stuff and honestly u should lowk focus on doing good in hs atm)

hope this helps!!
have an amazing day gorgeous!!
lots of love,
xoxo

Girl don’t worry at all, I didn’t start dating until I was at uni 18! Take your time 15 is still so young. I totally get how u feel when I was that age everyone round me was starting to go on dates and it just didn’t happen for me but girls it time and keep being yourself ❤️

Yeah idk, I just started and there’s this guy who likes me and idk what to do so… but yeah idk also you’re so pretty what ru talking abt, and if you like someone just like drop a lot of hints to him yk

Oh sry i meant I just started high school

Also I feel like it’s good to date in hs because you’re allowed to make mistakes yk