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Avalon
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Sep 30, 2026 04:20PM
Heyyyy!!! So basically I’ve been bi since the beginning of the year but I only told five people so far, four of them being in the LTGBQIA+ community. I told one girl today after she asked me if I liked anyone and I said a girls name. I feel like I owe it to my bsf and parents to tell them, but I don’t know how. I feel like it’s too scary to sit them down but I want to tell them. Ik that they will be supportive bc my parents are ally’s and my bsf has two dads. If any of you guys have any idea on how to tell them or what to do, you’d really be helping me!!! <3
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Hey! I’m also bi, and i’ve realized it over this previous summer. I’ve come out to my best friend, and a few of my LGBTQIA+ friends, and that’s it. You don’t owe it to anyone to come out. I’m thinking of coming out to my mom at some point, because she is the most likely to support me, and that’s it. But this is all on your own terms. You don’t have to tell anyone if you don’t want to. Although I have realized that when you do, it is much more freeing. I hope you find people that support you, because we definitely do!!
hey girl! so i’ve been like romantically confused to say it nicely for a while and i still havent like grabbed a title or really told many people, so it’s totally chill to be in the dark or just not want to scream it to the world, dw a lot of us are in the same boat! plus, you don’t owe anyone a thing 💋❤️⭐️✨
Awwww you guys are so sweet!!! My mom and I were in the car and she asked if I liked any boys and I said no and she asked if maybe there were a girl then she’s fine with that and I wanted to tell her so bad in that moment but I didn’t and now I’m just waiting for another chance. I came out to a few more friends and it felt really good, it’s just kinda hard to say the words
awww babes i’m so proud ❤️ you’re amazing but never feel like you owe anything to anyone. life is too short to worry about whether or not telling people is going to change anything, if they need to know or you want them to know the time will come i promise ⭐️✨💋❤️
@Avalonim so glad that ur mom would be supportive of it. just take things at ur pace. coming out is big deal for some people and if it is for u, then u need to make sure u are completely comfortable with sharing that. can i also ask what makes u sure of ur sexuality?? ive been confused about mine for a bit now and think i might be bi but im not sure. i would love people to help understand it with
Ofc you can ask me that! I feel like what really helped me know I’m sure is like the way that I felt around certain people. I started to develop girl crushes and it kinda just put everything into place for me. But I’m going to be completely and totally honest, it was Paedyn Gray from Powerless that kinda made me question my sexuality.
that’s actually so fair (about paedyn gray ) cause for me it was also a book character that made me question my sexuality as well as she ra and the princesses of power lol
im bi and pan, personally i have come out to a couple of my friends and my mom knows. just know guys you dont owe anyone. i told my ex(we were really close and the reason i broke up w him was bc he was very religious and didnt like the idea of wlw/blb) anyway i told him and he was chill, bit this week some guys was talking abt being homophobic and i tild him how that isnt kind and my ex lit told me”i think its ok to be homphoboc i wouldn’t want my friend to want and f#ck me”. my ex who i thought was supportive went against me to support homophobia. i love all my pride girls(and boys) and think always to tell them that you dont owe anyone. you can come out in your own time or not come out at all! whatever makes you feel comfortable is ok! anyways love yall feel free to friend me!



