Maximum Ride...ROCKS! discussion

Quick summary - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly two months, and I really like her, but I'm not really in love with her. I think she's really falling for me, though; she keeps going on about how I'm her Forever-and-always. She was thinking about "our" life waaay in the future (like after college, probably already married). Last night she wanted to talk about our future, and I mentioned college, and she said she had completely forgotten about it... then she offered for me to go be a nurse with her at whatever college she was going to in Tennessee (hopefully kidding, I couldn't tell).

(Who'da thought this is my first relationship and this is her... fourth I think?)

I'm not sure I'm even going to college, let alone the same college as her. I've told her many times that I'm probably going into the military at some point, which I am, but I haven't decided which branch to go into...

Anyways, she's a nice girl and I just want a little advice on how to let her down easy eventually... I don't want to break her heart, just break up with her...

Hah! exact oppisite of me except the guy was getting obsessed! sorry, I don't really have any advice, I suck at relationships, only been in two, and broke two hearts.

wow, she's clingy. I couldn't be in a relationship like that. going way into the future....seriously you guys don't even have the same goals.

yup i agree
1:stay together and make things clear
2:just break up-nicely though, explain y i guess

clean break up, your never going to avoid breaking her heart but *shrugs*. you need someone whole will support you when you enter the military.

yup

Ditto.

I'm just agreeing with Bobbie XD

lol, seems like none of us know how to break up!

seeing as i cant even rlly get a bf to start w/, im def no help w/ breaking up ><

I'm just posting what's logicall she seems, i don't wanna be mean. to put it nicely she's in anther relationship.

Hmm... I never thought of that, Bobbie... I guess I have to consider it, cuz a few of her friends have cheated on their boyfriends...

Even if all you don't have experience with trying to let guys down, most of you are girls right? If you knew someone was going to break up with you, how would you want them to do it?

?!

Yeah i'd what him to say y
it's a little easier i guess

But see, I don't have a real reason. She loves me, but I don't feel the same way about her. You know how they say when you've met the one you're supposed to spend the rest of your life with, you can feel it? I don't. I don't feel anything... Maybe I do love her, but I can't feel anything...

Small update - Yesterday she said "I believe that my love for you grows stronger everyday"... today I hinted that she asked if she was being clingy and I said "Nope. At least, not to me. I haven't had enough experience to know if you are or not..." I'm trying to hint at it, cuz when she had asked towards the beginning of the relationship I just said "Nope"...

I might just have to break her heart. I'd rather her hate me than worry about me or mourn for me when I do go into the military...

You might not want to outright just drop the bomb. I mean, I did that once and things didn't turn out so well...

lol steph
and yeah i agree with Zerogara

XD

She got a bunch of girls to gang up on me... Let's just say I don't think the janitors ever got all of the pizza-sauce off the ceiling.

that sounds, uh, epic. hey otto, i say try and let her down gently so that there's less chance of her flying off the handle. and good luck.

*thumbs up* *shakes head* good luck!

wow Zerogara
that pretty messed up

Biggest food fight since 4th grade. Boys vs girls, cafeteria's special for the day was pizza. Can't get better than that.

ha ha!

XD
kinda wish i could hav been there

me too....:(

Kinda?! One of my friends packed lunch, and they had a double-layered slice of cake covered with whipped cream. You can imagine what we did with that.

aww, stop it!

XD
now i really wish i was there

But that all ended when the principal came in and slipped on somebody's lasagna...

ekk! yayz!!

It was funny at first, but then his face turned red and we all kinda stopped laughing...

XD
i would've kept laughing
silently of course
XD

I second that, lol

Detention for a month isn't that funny. But what was funny was when he started giving us a lecture, and he didn't notice that his face was smeared with the whipped cream from my friends cake. He looked like Santa.

lol, i say it's worth it.

Yeah.

^^

You ever gotten into any good food fights?

yea, with my sisters lol

I haven't unfortunately
theyre all too scared of me

XD

^ ^

wow, were totally spamming!

lol
yeah

haha, I just wish we had at least one food fight at our school... =)

everyone does...

IKR
i havent had one yet

me either but I'm confident of next year

lol
got 3 years left so...