Lovers discussion

advice from a boy to a girl, girl to a boy, girl to girl, or boy to boy about questions and problems! post them here and someone will answer them!

hi!

howdy! thank u for joining!

my issue:
i know all there is to know about the guy i like, but i hadent actually talked to him untill last friday. he knows i exist because he always says hi to me in the halls of school, but he has a girlfriend. also, im best friends with his sister. hes not even in my grade. :(

ouch but you should wait till he breaks up with his girlfreind (no need to make enemys) then(or now) try to be "good freinds" that way it wont be as akward then if he doesnt ask you out ask him out be brave the worst thing that can happen is he says no

yeah i think he'll break up soon cuz hes already had 3 girlfriends in 1 year (could be bad news for me) (i know that cuz i know his sister) and im working on the good friends part. the only problem is that ive liked him for 4 years and didnt tell his sister, so i dont want it to be like i've been using her to get to him. also, when i go to their house, it was always me & his sister, but if we date, it would be more me & him. i dont want her to feel left out.

thank u so much 4 advice!

dont leave her out help her get a guy

cool thank u so much i just hope she wont feel left out when i go over cuz then she would have to hang out w/ her little bro & my little bro... :(

then figure out who she likes now

ok i like this guy and i get to see him wednesday but he never calls cuz he always works but wants to date me, what do i do?

hmmm set up something you really want to go to and see if he wants to go (he cant work ALL the time) like a movie or the fair

true he lives an hour and a half away from me though when he doesn't work . . . depressing

awwwwww im sorry

Madelyn wrote: "then figure out who she likes now"
cool i'll do tht!

thats depressing! the guy tht 1 of my friends likes doesnt even live in our state... :(

awwww thats gotta be bad but on my old neighborhood all the cute guys in my grade(it was a small school) lived almost next to me one lived 2 or 3 doors down and one lived behind me

Xologrrl luvvs SHADOW! wrote: "cool thank u so much i just hope she wont feel left out when i go over cuz then she would have to hang out w/ her little bro & my little bro... :("

u should tell her. i mean she's ur best friend right?

Madelyn wrote: "awwww thats gotta be bad but on my old neighborhood all the cute guys in my grade(it was a small school) lived almost next to me one lived 2 or 3 doors down and one lived behind me"

wow :D

i was lucky :)

lol did u like any of them?

went out with both of em

haha cool

i know but there wasnt much competion (im not full of myself trust me) there were two white girls(im not predjudice) and she was ugly

who was uglyu?

the other girl

oh. and ur pretty? lol

not really im the one in hte red in my pic though

u r pretty lol

not really i need to clean my hamster cage

you have a hamster that is awesome!

yeah but he stinks at the moment

oh i bet lol

i was sick all of febuary and i havent been taking good care of his cage since

Madelyn wrote: "i was sick all of febuary and i havent been taking good care of his cage since"
aww poor hamster!
Madelyn wrote: "went out with both of em"

ive never gone out w/ anyone :(

awwww.. dont worry me neither wahahahha

i have and a lot of them weren't worth it . . . lol

it wasnt anything serious we only went to the movie(and his parents were there) but i spent almost all day with them

Madelyn wrote: "it wasnt anything serious we only went to the movie(and his parents were there) but i spent almost all day with them"

yeah, but still. :P

i agree with Aerieyalle they werent worth it

went out with this guy sinse seventh grade then he turned gay; another got too clingy; another stopped calling and wouldn't answer mine after like 3 months of being together; another payed more attention to his computer than me so like ya

i know i hate when they pay more attention to games then you its ANNOYING

very i totally hate it

its horrible

i know, i like this guy but everytime he comes over, he's a schwans man, only 24. my step dad makes me go in the house away from him. i'm about ready to move out and tell them to shove it up their *choose bad word here*! i don't know where i'd go though, and i have only like $30 soon to be less than that if my mom buys me make -up and i have to pay her back. what do i do?

all i can say is talk to freinds one of mine has already offfered to let me move in with her once she gets her own place (ive already got $900 in the move away fund and ive got years till i move out)

i have $30 and then maybe less lol and i have a month and a half before i leave uh oh

wow i work do you? also my dad (who i dont see?) got guit trips and gave me a total of $1100 and i saved $900

omg my mom and dad only give me allowances NEVER anything else money related not even on birthdays... i dont have a permanent job but i pet sit and i will start babysitting soon.
deffinitely talk to friends-theyll help u!

i dont get alowences and that money was guilt it was supposed to make up for 4 years without seeing me and the only reason she can help is her dad promised her either one of his rental trailers or houses

no i don't work because my parents won't let me but expect me to pay for make-up and things myself how stupid are they?

why wont they let you work?

cuz they want me to remain a kid