Darkest Nights discussion

just ask and anyone can answer

well mostly it would b going through a rough time and tats about it. a crush really. but im still ok.....in a way

did you talk to them about it?

I don't really date (manly cause my parents think I to young) But just curious here. What do you guys do when all of a sudden your dating someone and people have there nose in your buisness and won't leave you alone?

TEll them to back off.

haha other than the obvious. Like is there a way to keep people from getting in your business in the first place....cause one minute no one talks to me the next I feel like a fricken famous person! -_-

are they considered friends?

mmmm nope not if I've never had anything to do with them before lolZ

you could just ignore them or you could scare them off :)

Note to self, hire a body guard to kick peoples ass!!! lolZ jkjk

woohoo!!!! get like one of those dudes who look like a brick wall! that would work

Hahaha I think my teachers would be suspisious...

Tell them its your foriegn cousin Frank :)

haha! lolZ

it probably would work

no I should be like "Oh SHE(impasive that) is my long lost cousin twice removed named Frank who is foreign from France!"

that would be hilarous

haha yeah!

lol

And in music *sniffles* YOU LEFT OUT COUNTRY!!!!

sorry.

-_-

its up

Or you could just spaz at them and lecture them about staying out of people's buisness.

haha I shall do that!

And it kind of works! My freind used that tactic for a while and then they just started asking her boyfreind if they were going out. And if the kept asking my friend, both of us would spaz at them.

eh...

Lol!

I think they can sometimes.....but most the times no

Hmmm...What about if you like two people but for different reasons and arent sure what to do? One of them's really nice and sweet, and the other one is funny. But the funny one is moving away so it would be kind of a lost cause... >.<

Yeah... Thanks. That helps a lot ^_^ But um..WHY do you think that we are attracted to people who are going away from us?

Because you can't have them and it makes you want them more. Does that make sense?

ok what about age: Does it matter?

ok thank you!

Q: What if you like someone who is bipolar about you. Like, one day he(or she) is your best friend and flirts with you and yeah and the next they call you fat? And that they are mean and put you down, but totally suck up once you say you don't want to be their friend anymore.

Then they might have personality issues. But that's just my opinion, so don't quote me on that.

♥---Bobbie----♥ wrote: "Because you can't have them and it makes you want them more. Does that make sense?"

yeah it does...its just kinda sad :( But thank you so much. That helps a lot.

Jessi wrote: "Q: What if you like someone who is bipolar about you. Like, one day he(or she) is your best friend and flirts with you and yeah and the next they call you fat? And that they are mean and put you do..."

I think that maybe they feel bad about themselves and maybe put you down so that you respect THEM more therefore they have the upper hand in the relationship or something...idk.

Lol, I think they just have issues, and you shouldnt be around that person anymore. If they like you, then they should change so you guys can hang out! See if that helps(:

I agree, lol

glad I can help!

Haha me too ^_^

Thanks(: I know it's just I don't even know why I like the guy, but he makes me laugh and stuff, but he's also very mean. It's like one of those abusive relationships you know? And like, everytime I say knock it off or we shouldn't be friends anymore, he totally goes in the the no no I'm kidding you're my best(girl)friend Jessi blah blah. And he is nice and is like a brother to me, but yeah he's making stupid desicions and hanging around with the wrong people:( So it's like, I have to hold on to him so he won't be such a dumbass and screw up his life/:

Jessi wrote: "Thanks(: I know it's just I don't even know why I like the guy, but he makes me laugh and stuff, but he's also very mean. It's like one of those abusive relationships you know? And like, everytime ..."

Well its not YOUR resonsibility to take care of HIM. I dont think you should take on that kind of resposibility because then youre just staying with an abussive person for THEM. In turn you could damage yourself. I just dont think its a good idea... If he screws up his own life thats on HIM. It will never be your fault., Dont cscrew up yourself in teh process of trying to help someone else becasue then youre both screwed. You need to help yourself before you can help others. I learned that the hard way.

I agree with Solaris.

Ha, thanks Princess. Sometimes it just comes to me, lol. ^_^ By the way I hope that helps you Jessi.