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Chester is gonna convert into a muslim so he can marry me:)

Lol Samster. InshaAllah he does become a Muslim.

Hira, yes I plan on marrying one day InshaAllah. Too young now though :)

Yeah I plan on getting married just not yet

Jasmine thnks:)

I'm 14, so I think I have some time. =P
But yeah I do wanna get married. =P Between the ages of 20-22. LOL. =P

What do you guys think about dating? Like what do you tell your friends about it?

Lol I'm 12 turning 13 soon and I'm already getting married to Chester!!:D hehe:P

سارہ سادیا =D wrote: "I'm 14, so I think I have some time. =P
But yeah I do wanna get married. =P Between the ages of 20-22. LOL. =P

What do you guys think about dating? Like what do you tell your friends about it?"

if you mean like having a boyfriend dating i think it's wrong cause i mean it is haram



and i plan on getting married but there is like no muslims where i live besides my family

Ok, I was just wondering. I think the same too. =D

LMFAO!!! Yup I'm 12!!:D

BUT remember I'm turning 13 in March so I that will be one number difference!!! Haha

Around here girls get married around 18-20. I'm 16 turning 17. But I don't wanna get married to soon. I want to get an education first and a job. If I had to choose between marriage and my education, I would pick
my education!

I would definetlty choose education first,because nowdays education is really important.When I finish my studies then I would think about my marriage,and I am still too young.

Yep but I know it's going to b hard. Not many Muslim/Arab women have gone to college. So I'm goin to have to beg my parents and work my hardest!

I think it's the same way with me, confidence...

naa forget college im marring Chester!!:P

Lol samster!

Mariam {مريم} wrote: "I think it's the same way with me, confidence..."

It is? It sucks huh? I'm probably going to online college. I know it's not as great as regular college but it's better than nothing right?

Yeah it does suck, and I've thought about online collage ur right it is better than nothing

my dad is the one encouraging me and my sisters to go to college first and marriage later which is good i think...

same here my parents want me to finish my studies and then think about my marriage

Well first im gonna get a career, live my life, go round the world, have fun and then i'll think about weather to get married or not!

Being a Muslim girl...marriage is all my family talks about. But I'm more like Kristina...I'd like to live my life before I get married.

My parents want me to go to college, so I can make my own money if need be and they want me to have a career. I'm gonna be a lawyer.
But I have this personal thing to get married in my early 20's. LOL =P

Joy wrote: "Being a Muslim girl...marriage is all my family talks about. But I'm more like Kristina...I'd like to live my life before I get married."

good u should! cuz u only get to live once, so make the most of it lol:)

سارہ سادیا =D wrote: "My parents want me to go to college, so I can make my own money if need be and they want me to have a career. I'm gonna be a lawyer.
But I have this personal thing to get married in my early 20's..."

LOL:)

Kristina Ivashkov wrote: "Well first im gonna get a career, live my life, go round the world, have fun and then i'll think about weather to get married or not!"

same here Kristina, when ppl r young its our time to shine and enjoy, i think marriage comes after the enjoyment of life

Damn straight! this is the time for us to enjoy and have fun!:)

oh yeah it is;):p

Ah-ha true say:)

There's no reason for us to start having kids if we haven't even lived the life we wanted.

Er, in Ahmadiyyat girls don't get married unless they want to. Like they have to say yes that they want to get married and approve their match. Isn't there something like for you guys?

Not really for people I know in Yemen, a lot of girls have arranged marrages, one women I knew did was my mom...

But it's not like that for me, my parents won't force me into marrage and I'm grateful for that.

That's good to know, we have arranged marriages too. But the girl and guy have to agree to the marriage, as in do they like their match or not. My aunt who is recently getting married was offered a match but said no to the first and yes to the other one.

My uncle said no to a few but finally said yes, and him and my aunt to be are gonna get married this year. Along with my aunt and my uncle to be. =P

Hope they have a happy marriage together :D

Thanks, my uncle and aunt to be had a court marriage in London, but we're not counting it as a real marriage cause we want all the traditional stuff. LOL. It's kinda confusing. =P But thanks still. =D

Ur welcome! :D
I love going to weddings lol I'm listening to a Yemeni wedding song right now too

That's so cool! I mostly end up going to the valimas. I don't remember the last time I went to an official wedding. Well actually it was about last year. For my friend ((I'm friends with a 24 year old at my mosque.)) It was fun!

Haha that's cool!

Sometimes I think the next wedding that will happen in my family will be my own

Is that good or bad?

Um... Both? Lol, it's just that sometimes I look forward to being married and other times I'm afraid

Oh, I sorta know what you mean. I'm the oldest in my family, children wise. And even though I'm 14, almost 15, I think about that stuff. Wondering what'll be like. You know?

Yeah I know what u mean. And I'm the oldest too! Hate it sometimes though

Mariam {مريم} wrote: "Um... Both? Lol, it's just that sometimes I look forward to being married and other times I'm afraid"

I feel the same way. They say I'm the next one to get married in the family. One time my mom and sisters tricked me. They said that someone wants to marry me. They seemed so serious. I Panicked! I kept on telling them to say wallah but they wouldn't so I finally calmed down and knew they were lying.
But a wedding would be nice

Lol my dad's aunt does that to me, but she's done it so many times I learned to ignor it.

But... There are some parents in Yemen that want me to marry their son. That's why I'm glad my dad won't make me marry.

My parents aren't going to force me to marry but they do want me to marry. But not at this age. Until I'm at least 18.

Every time I say I want to go to Yemen they say that if I go, it'll b for my wedding.

But i know they r kidding

Lol that's what my uncle says "next time u go, ur going to marry"

He's kidding too cuz we laugh

its funny how every Yemeni families are alike in some ways:D

Lol yeah it is!
Where are u from in Yemen, north or south?

north. u?