Teens rock! discussion

I know that almost everyone here has and or had a boyfriend or boyfriends, but i have had one boyfriend and we went off and on and yeah, and we made a mistake one night while i was at my nieces moms house with my niece her halfbrother that is not my nephew and we kinda sorta madeout infront of the boy my niece was asleep and i felt so bad the next day that i went to school i told someone to tell my EX that it was over. Share your story PLZ

Hi... Well I dont have much experience with boys but there was this one time where I was texting this boy that I had like for months. The only problem was that I always started conversations and it seemed like he didn't want to talk to me. Then my so called BFF (who is extremely pretty) started texting him and he asked her to go out with her, she said yes and didnt think to tell me, so I kinda found out when she was bragging about it to someone... that wasnt good!! :(:(

Sup...I really like my neighbor. We talk over our windows with whiteboards because he dosnt have a phone he asked me on a few dates and on the third, he kissed me. So now we are dating but were not going to the same school and I might move.

Ceci (Sprinkles) wrote: "Sup...I really like my neighbor. We talk over our windows with whiteboards because he dosnt have a phone he asked me on a few dates and on the third, he kissed me. So now we are dating but were not..."

Aww thats really romantic... I wish something like that happened to me!! The talking through the window with whiteboards reminds me of the video for Taylor Swift's song, you belong with me. If you havent seen it, you should... I hope things go okay with you and your neighbour/boyfriend. :D:D

We got the idea from math when we would talk across the class room using are whiteboards.

Ceci (Sprinkles) wrote: "We got the idea from math when we would talk across the class room using are whiteboards."

Ha, cool... it sounds like you two really like each other!! :D:D

Salutations,
I have a story. For once, I am someone who is not scared to admit a mistake he has conjured. I remember dating this girl. We were friends with benefits for about three or four months and started dating afterwards. I admit, I thought she was the one; I was a fool to believe in crazy love. I thought I really loved her, I thought I would give her the world, and I was foolish enough to believe she'd be mine until death seperated us. Albeit like every other relationship I have been in, I become sick with distaste after three months of dating her. I suppose it was something like a man having a Passion so deep- so seemingly infinite that it was tainted and overcome by boredom. I would hold her hand but I felt so affection; I would hug her and feel no warmth- I just didn't like her anymore. However, I was too scared to break up with her, because everytime I thought of summing up the courage she would tell me how much she loved me, and that she didn't know what she would do without me, and I felt guilty for not loving her. So I... tried to live with it but eventually I started ignoring her text messages, I stopped taking interest in her conversations and finally she broke and cut it off. Her friends, of course, like to call me profane names everytime I walk by or give me dirty looks, and it used to stab me with guilt. Now, I don't care quite honestly and I usually flash them the middle finger.

Another shorter story would be when I was dating this girl. It was bad enough she tried to get my attention by being loud, obnoxious, stupid, and making sob stories. The sob stories caught my attention, misfortunately, and I took pity on her and became her friend. Everytime I said "Hi, what's up?" She would say she was "ok..." And I would know something was wrong. Naturally I would ask her about it and she would come up with stories that are honestly repetitive and hard to believe. She did this when I dated her, too. She would tell stories about rape and abuse. Yeah, ok- honestly, I stopped believing her and I stopped caring and broke up with her; it became obvious that most if not all of the stories were made up for attention. I think the only reason why I dated her was out of pity- totally my fault. I've fallen for this trick three times.

Moral is, I don't... trust relations.

we do

Ceci (Sprinkles) wrote: "we do"

Well thats great!! :D:D I hopt you last a long time!! (Sorry, the hopeless romantic is coming out of me!!)

Its ok and I think we will

Well that is fortunate for you- that you like relationships; most people do.

I am the few that don't merely because I've just got no good past with dating. Dating just... doesn't like me.

thats sad. 3rd times the charm

Parøxysmal Cataclysm wrote: "Well that is fortunate for you- that you like relationships; most people do.

I am the few that don't merely because I've just got no good past with dating. Dating just... doesn't like me."

Naww... I'm one of those people who believes that theres a soulmate out there for everyone. And as my Grandma always says "sometimes the things you are looking for are right under your nose!" So, just keep looking!! :D:D

I used to fantasize (like a girl) about that "soul mate" stuff.
But then America kind of ruined that for me with its high divorce rate.

My negativity is hilarious.

stupid divorse rate! isn't it like 50%?

I believe so because they say "half" of America's marriages end in divorce.

yeah. my whole families marriges ended in divorse except one because they are both in jail

o.o I am sorry to hear that. But honestly, I just laughed a little O.o

Parøxysmal Cataclysm wrote: "I used to fantasize (like a girl) about that "soul mate" stuff.
But then America kind of ruined that for me with its high divorce rate.

My negativity is hilarious."

Well maybe someone will come into your life and make you change your mind!! You never know!! And the statement about the high divorce rate mean you have been divorced, or are scared of getting divorced?!?! :D:D

I dont care. One of them killed someone and the other stole 10 cars. But they never found the cars

No, I am not scared, and I haven't been divorced yet because I am only fifteen... o.o
I don't know how divorce feels- many tell me it is heartbreaking but I don't... I am just not scared.

And no, the statement about the divorce rate means divorce is high and I think it gives me a reason not to believe in soul mate stuff, lol.

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Oh my! Well... crime definitely exists! I don't know what to say...

yeah. but she just got out so yeah. And you should al least try to find the one even tho I dont fantizie about finding the one.

Parøxysmal Cataclysm wrote: "No, I am not scared, and I haven't been divorced yet because I am only fifteen... o.o
I don't know how divorce feels- many tell me it is heartbreaking but I don't... I am just not scared.

And no,..."

So, if the divorce rate is 50% then that means that 50% of marriages last!! And, as you said, you're only 15 so theres plenty of time for you to find your soulmate and fall in love... so ner!! :D:D

I suppose so, I will definitely find someone, I can believe that much.

Parøxysmal Cataclysm wrote: "I suppose so, I will definitely find someone, I can believe that much."

YEY!! Now, watch some disney films, listen to some love songs, eat some chocolate and if at the end of the day you dont believe that theres someone for everyone, then theres no luck for the rest of us!! :D:D

Lol! Uhm… I can eat chocolate, but I am not listening to love songs… or Disney movies. I hate Disney movies...

Skinny Jeans wrote: "Parøxysmal Cataclysm wrote: "I suppose so, I will definitely find someone, I can believe that much."

YEY!! Now, watch some disney films, listen to some love songs, eat some chocolate and if at the..."

How does that help.
Sorry for the late responce. I was shreading paper

Ceci (Sprinkles) wrote: "Skinny Jeans wrote: "Parøxysmal Cataclysm wrote: "I suppose so, I will definitely find someone, I can believe that much."

YEY!! Now, watch some disney films, listen to some love songs, eat some ch..."

Ha, no its fine... Well the disney films will remind you that love can exist in any form (I.e. when you have lost your voice, poor, live with 7 men, or love a beast) Then the choccy will make you feel good and the love songs are really self explanitory!! :D:D

Parøxysmal Cataclysm wrote: "Lol! Uhm… I can eat chocolate, but I am not listening to love songs… or Disney movies. I hate Disney movies..."

You. Hate. Disney. Movies? What kind of a person hates disney movies??

apperently him

I'm saddened now!! :(:(

I'm sorry! D: I just… don't like them, haha. I don't like it when they break into song.

true. i would alway fast forward through there singing

Ceci (Sprinkles) wrote: "Sup...I really like my neighbor. We talk over our windows with whiteboards because he dosnt have a phone he asked me on a few dates and on the third, he kissed me. So now we are dating but were not..."

well just tell him that

I did

Ceci (Sprinkles) wrote: "true. i would alway fast forward through there singing"

Thats the best bit!! Its funny!! And the fact that all the Princesses can talk to animals!! :D:D

I'm in love with fictional guys... except one is really real..

LOL!!! I like that :)
I'm in love with my boy friend and he's in love with me, its not as simple as it seems trust me. But I agree fictional characters are much easier to crush on...but not half as much fun :p

I'm not even sure if my 'boyfriend' is even my boyfriend, I hardly ever see him, and it's kinda of drifting off.

I know I hate it when people do that:s I haven't seen my boyfriend for about 5 weeks now 1)he lives in Luton and 2)our parents don't really know about us being together. And LOL now he's in Greece so basically I can't wait to go back to school again so we can see each other <3 x

Parøxysmal Cataclysm wrote: "Salutations,
I have a story. For once, I am someone who is not scared to admit a mistake he has conjured. I remember dating this girl. We were friends with benefits for about three or four months a..."

Ouch :s I think its unfair if her friends did that to you!? I mean its non of their bussiness right...!?!

Parøxysmal Cataclysm wrote: "Salutations,
I have a story. For once, I am someone who is not scared to admit a mistake he has conjured. I remember dating this girl. We were friends with benefits for about three or four months a..."

I know dude!! its just that love is just so horrible. it works for some ppl but for a lot of them it doesnt! I simply gave up on it.. I dont believe in love anymore and just try to stay away from it as much as i can.. i have previously fallen for the wrong people and things ended up in such a way that my life sucks!!!!! so now i have just accepted the fact that love isnt my cup of tea...

I LOVE ADRIAN IVASHKOV!

Rush wrote: "Parøxysmal Cataclysm wrote: "Salutations,
I have a story. For once, I am someone who is not scared to admit a mistake he has conjured. I remember dating this girl. We were friends with benefits for..."

Don't ever give up on anything...trust me I felt the same a couple of years ago...you will find someone...just wait

So...my latest "romance" was with guy named Jackson. I was best friends with him for like four months and I started to develop feelings for him. Everyone would tell me that he liked me too and stuff, but I shrugged it off because I wanted HIM to tell me how he felt. So finally he asked me out and I automatically said yes. Things were great for about three weeks then I started getting texts from friends saying how Jackson had been flirting with another girl during class or how he was talking to his friends about how he liked my bffs butt. I didnt want to believe it so I ignored it for a few weeks, but I saw him flirting with a group of girls one day and I had finally had enough. So I broke up with him. Oh and did I mention how he was arrested for sexing other girls after I broke to with him? Lmao.

poor you...

Well, my mum will kill me if she sees this. But, I guess we all our teens, right? And all this keeps on happening with them. So here is my story.

I used to go for badminton coaching camps and met new people there (obviously) We became like the best pf friends and exchanged our numbers. Many of them were guys also, but I still exchanged my number with them because I am a tomboy and was used to hanging out with guys. Infact, my family encouraged that more than me gossiping with girls. As a normal teen, even I have a crush (no names). And after the coaching got over, one of the guys used to text me a lot. I thought he was free and was getting bored and didnt have anyone else to text to. Sometimes I had doubts, but I shrugged them off. One day, he started talking to me about his crushes. I was a bit shocked, but kept up with it. I told him about my crush too as they both were studying in the same school. One day, my friend made me promise that I will tell this guy to go tell my crush I have a crush on him and I did that. He texts me back 'I have a crush on you.' And I was really shocked. Instantly I refused him, but that night he send me a text every minute begging me to accept his proposal. I tell yes to him only to stop the flow of messages and get on with it. Slowly, on gtalk, he started talking to me about 'our' 'later life'. would just go with it. I just dont want him, but if I dont be with him, my inbox will be full and I dont want that. I just dont want him and that is what I know. Ofcourse he doesn't know any of this and I am really scared if he doesn't go from my life soon.

Wow sounds like you have a really hard situation there. I hate it when boys do that to you it is a complete no no...so boys...not a good way to get to a girl!!!
If I had to make a decision like that (and im not saying this is what you should do btw!!) I would either tell him to stop and just change my number or say you changed it and give him a fake number or just go for a coffee or something and explain to him exactly how you feel.

If you don't like him, then tell him how you feel, you can still stay friends if that's all you want.

Friends is good if thats still what you want. I have a lot of friends that are guys and only one good friend that is a girl so its not a strange thing!!