Judy's Friend Comments

David wrote: "How do you come up with such sexual fantasies?

No disrespect intended. Just curious. I get a lot of people asking me how I come up with stories too, but then, I don't write erotica."

I start with real-life experience. Without that, there's no basis for the sort of erotica that I write. Then I use stream-of-consciousness to elaborate on what is real. Changing what did happen to what could have happened; what I would have liked to have happened. Incorporating what happened to other people I know and making it what happened to me. I use my own repeated fantasies and attach them to actual real-life situations that I've experienced, with a view to enhancing them, sometimes allocating my own experiences to other characters. Many erotica writers write to give themselves a variety of different sensations and that's true of me. It's like a blindfolded journey into an erotic arena that makes you discover things about yourself.

How do you come up with such sexual fantasies?

No disrespect intended. Just curious. I get a lot of people asking me how I come up with stories too, but then, I don't write erotica.