“Children of narcissists learn that love is abuse. The narcissist teaches them that if someone displeases you, it is okay to harm them and call it love.”
― Narcissistic Family Dynamics: Collected Essays
― Narcissistic Family Dynamics: Collected Essays
“Anything that is alive will die one day and its body will return to the earth... Which in turn makes the flowers and grass grow.
In the same way, our souls become nourishment for the people around us, and live on through the memories of those we loved.
Everything in this world has a flow. Even human lives.”
― Fullmetal Alchemist, Vol. 5
In the same way, our souls become nourishment for the people around us, and live on through the memories of those we loved.
Everything in this world has a flow. Even human lives.”
― Fullmetal Alchemist, Vol. 5
“If unloving mothers were able to see their behavious as abusive, they either would stop behaving that way or they would get help for their dysfunction. But many cannot: instead, they deny it, to themselves, their families, and the world at large, in order to avoid a sense of guilt, to avoid having to make changes in their lives, or to avoid the bruising awareness that they, too, were unloved children.”
― When You and Your Mother Can't Be Friends: Resolving the Most Complicated Relationship of Your Life
― When You and Your Mother Can't Be Friends: Resolving the Most Complicated Relationship of Your Life
“If you are told from the time you are one month that you're no good and you're not smart and you can't do it and you don't have an opinion of your own and you pick the wrong friends and you don't study the right way and you don't wear the right clothes and you don't look nice, at some point you're going to start believing it. And if you believe it, you're going to need a mommy to tell you what to do. And that's abuse. Not to let your child grow up to be an independent, respected human being.”
― When You and Your Mother Can't Be Friends: Resolving the Most Complicated Relationship of Your Life
― When You and Your Mother Can't Be Friends: Resolving the Most Complicated Relationship of Your Life
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