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Gabor Maté
“And what is that? Perhaps something like the capacity to enter into the textures or sensations of the moment; to relax enough so as to give oneself over to the rhythms of an episode or a personal encounter, to follow the thread of feeling or thought without knowing where it leads, or to pause long enough for reflection or contemplation.”16 Ultimately, what we are distracted from is living.”
Gabor Maté, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness and Healing in a Toxic Culture

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Gabor Maté
“People bearing trauma’s scars almost uniformly develop a shame-based view of themselves at the core, a negative self-perception most of them are all too conscious of. Among the most poisonous consequences of shame is the loss of compassion for oneself. The more severe the trauma, the more total that loss.”
Gabor Maté, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness and Healing in a Toxic Culture

Gabor Maté
“Given this order of operations, children’s sense of security, trust in the world, interrelationships with others, and, above all, connection to their authentic emotions hinge on the consistent availability of attuned, non-stressed, and emotionally reliable caregivers. The more stressed or distracted the latter, the shakier the emotional architecture of the child’s mind will be.”
Gabor Maté, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness and Healing in a Toxic Culture

Gabor Maté
“Developmental psychologists agree that praising a child’s effort is helpful and promotes self-esteem, while valuing the achievement only programs kids to keep seeking external approval—not for who they are but for what they do, for what others demand of them. It’s yet another barrier to the emergence of a healthy self.”
Gabor Maté, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture

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