“When the glamour wears off, or merely works a bit thin, they think they have made a mistake, and that the real soul-mate is still to find. . . And of course they are as a rule quite right: they did make a mistake. Only a very wise man at the end of his life could make a sound judgment concerning whom, amongst the total chances, he ought most profitably to have married! Nearly all marriages, even happy ones, are mistakes: in the sense that almost certainly (in a more perfect world, or even with a little more care in this very imperfect one) both partners might have found more suitable mates. But the 'real soul-mate' is the one you are actually married to.”
― The Letters of J.R.R. Tolkien
― The Letters of J.R.R. Tolkien
“The Resurrection was the greatest ‘eucatastrophe’ possible in the greatest Fairy Story — and produces that essential emotion: Christian joy which produces tears because it is qualitatively so like sorrow, because it comes from those places where Joy and Sorrow are at one, reconciled, as selfishness and altruism are lost in Love.”
― The Letters of J.R.R. Tolkien
― The Letters of J.R.R. Tolkien
“Out of the darkness of my life, so much frustrated, I put before you the one great thing to love on earth: the Blessed Sacrament … There you will find romance, glory, honour, fidelity, and the true way of all your loves upon earth.”
― The Letters of J.R.R. Tolkien
― The Letters of J.R.R. Tolkien
“I invented that little rhyme about 'One Ring to rule them all', I remember, in the bath one day.”
― The Letters of J.R.R. Tolkien
― The Letters of J.R.R. Tolkien
“After all, I believe that legends and myths are largely made of 'truth'.”
― The Letters of J.R.R. Tolkien
― The Letters of J.R.R. Tolkien
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