“As a result, many parents see behavior as the measure of who our kids are, rather than using behavior as a clue to what our kids might need.”
― Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
― Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
“Building resilience is about developing the capacity to tolerate distress, to stay in and with a tough, challenging moment, to find our footing and our goodness even when we don’t have confirmation of achievement or pending success.”
― Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
― Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
“Now you have your job description: keep your child safe, emotionally and physically, using boundaries, validation, and empathy.”
― Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
― Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
“Multiplicity is what allows two people to get along and feel close—they each know that their experience will be accepted as true and explored as important, even if those experiences are different. Building strong connections relies on the assumption that no one is right in the absolute, because understanding, not convincing, is what makes people feel secure in a relationship.”
― Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
― Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
“Parents are often told to “name the feeling” when our children are upset (“You are so mad!” or “You’re feeling sad, I know”). This can be useful when we are trying to connect with our kids in “regular” moments, but in moments of big tantrums, I find that validating the magnitude of the feeling is much more effective.”
― Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
― Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
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