“people say things
meant to rip you in half
but you hold the power to not
turn their words into a knife
and cut yourself”
― Milk and honey
meant to rip you in half
but you hold the power to not
turn their words into a knife
and cut yourself”
― Milk and honey
“Having a strong urge is like having a child throw a temper tantrum inside you, screaming "Hurt yourself!" But if you repeatedly ignore the urge's request and don't harm yourself, your brain will learn that urges don't work, just as a child learns that throwing a tantrum won't work.”
― Freedom from Self-Harm: Overcoming Self-Injury with Skills from DBT and Other Treatments
― Freedom from Self-Harm: Overcoming Self-Injury with Skills from DBT and Other Treatments
“We both knew what it was to hurt our bodies. It's a strange reason to bond with someone, but I think we both needed to feel understood, and, even though we couldn't love ourselves, we could love each other.”
― Lady Injury
― Lady Injury
“Depression wasn’t an endless grey sky, it was no sky at all. I’ve got to go somewhere. I’ve got to go. It”
― Our Numbered Days
― Our Numbered Days
“Even though alcohol abuse is frowned upon by society, it's generally considered acceptable to drink in moderation in many social situations. In fact, society has a pretty high tolerance for drinking, even when people drink to the point of getting tipsy. This is definitely not the case for self-harm, though. On the contrary, society generally sees self-harm as unacceptable at any level and under any circumstances.”
― Freedom from Self-Harm: Overcoming Self-Injury with Skills from DBT and Other Treatments
― Freedom from Self-Harm: Overcoming Self-Injury with Skills from DBT and Other Treatments
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