“It’s hard to be different,” Scarborough said. “And perhaps the best answer is not to tolerate differences, not even to accept them. But to celebrate them. Maybe then those who are different would feel more loved, and less, well, tolerated.”
― Openly Straight
― Openly Straight
“DRAMA: Be careful about being baited into the personal battles and confusion of others. If you want to help someone out emotionally, be certain he or she has made a commitment to the sacrifice before you intervene for his or her success. If you don’t, you’re likely to be drained of all your healthy energy with his or her selfish petty, pitiful pretending and negotiating. Be encouraged but more importantly if you can’t make it better, whatever you do don’t make it worse, for them and especially yourself”
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“You empower everything you complain about. You strengthen the negative things you speak of. And you energize the problems you vocalize.”
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“If you want to govern the people,
You must place yourself below them.
If you want to lead people,
You must learn how to follow them.”
― Tao Te Ching
You must place yourself below them.
If you want to lead people,
You must learn how to follow them.”
― Tao Te Ching
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