Larry Miller

“Small, seemingly innocent events keep telling us how easily we eternalize ourselves and our world. It takes only a hostile word to make us feel sad and lonely. It takes only a rejecting gesture to plunge us into self-complaint. It takes only a substantial failure in our work to lead us into a self-destructive depression. Although we have learned from parents, teachers, friends and many books, sacred as well as profane, that we are worth more than what the world makes us, we keep giving an eternal value to the things we own, the people we know, the plans we have, and the successes we “collect.”
― Henri J.M. Nouwen, Reaching Out: The Three Movements of the Spiritual Life

“Our lives pivot on tiny moments. Whether it’s an email out of the blue, someone saying yes to you, someone saying no, births, deaths, accidents or decisions, these instants form turning points in our lives and all of a sudden we’re headed in a new direction.”
― Joanne Mallon, Change Your Life in 5 Minutes a Day

“You can never focus without a goal and never achieve your goal without focus...”
― Marcel Riemer, Slamming It Out!: How I got shit done in 5* kitchens

“But Karl Menninger did not accept any of these answers as the right one. His answer was “diagnosis.” The first and most important task of any healer is making the right diagnosis. Without an accurate diagnosis, subsequent treatment has little effect. Or, to say it better, diagnosis is the beginning of treatment. For Karl Menninger, speaking to a group of future psychiatrists, this obviously meant that the most attention should be paid to learning the diagnostic skills of the profession. But when we take the word diagnosis in its most original and profound meaning of knowing through and through (gnosis = knowledge; dia = through and through), we can see that the first and most important aspect of all healing is an interested effort to know the patients fully, in all their joys and pains, pleasures and sorrows, ups and downs, highs and lows, which have given shape and form to their life and have led them through the years to their present situation.”
― Henri J.M. Nouwen, Reaching Out: The Three Movements of the Spiritual Life