“At some point as adults we cease to be our parents' children and we become our children's parents instead.”
― Defending Jacob
― Defending Jacob
“Damage hardens us all. It will harden you too, when it finds you—and it will find you”
― Defending Jacob
― Defending Jacob
“But sometimes you can't figure everything out because you can't ever really understand other people. You can't understand why they do what they do. You just have to accept a little mystery, Ben. People are mysterious, the world is mysterious. You can't know everything. You're not supposed to. This isn't a history book. It's just the world. It's a messy place.”
― Mission Flats: A Novel
― Mission Flats: A Novel
“Every father knows the disconcerting when you see your child as a weird, distorted double of yourself. It is as if for a moment your identities overlap. You see an idea, a conception of your boyish inner self...made real and flesh.
He is you restarted, rewound; at the same time he is as foreign and unknowable as any other person.”
― Defending Jacob
He is you restarted, rewound; at the same time he is as foreign and unknowable as any other person.”
― Defending Jacob
“The interior of a teenager’s mind is an endless war between Stupid and Clever.”
― Defending Jacob
― Defending Jacob
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