“God made me a girl. And He did that on purpose. But He asks me to become the kind of girl who is actually useful to His kingdom purposes. I need to become the sort of girl who is unafraid to poke my head into the battle of the ages and cry out, “Who is this uncircumcised Philistine who is blaspheming the armies of the living God?” God wants me to wrestle. God wants to stick grit in my girliness. He wants me to be prepared to tangle, to interlock my soul in this eternal combat—- not with other girls, not with sweaty boys, but with Him, and with the otherworldly powers of darkness. He wants me to wrestle in prayer, to grab ahold of His great and precious promises and fight to see them unfurled in living reality on this Earth.”
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“If you are ready to trade the hollow self-made beauty of this world for the glorious Christ-built beauty of a set-apart young woman, this is where it all begins. Denying self, taking up your cross, and following the Lamb wherever He leads. In other words, letting go of all preoccupation with self: our comfort, our pleasure, our agenda, our popularity, our ability to gain the world's approval, even our own dreams and desires. And, as Paul did, treating all those things as rubbish for the excellence of the knowledge of Him and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His sufferings (Philippians 3:7-9).”
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“Stop trying to fit [Christ] into your life; instead, build your life around [Him].”
― Authentic Beauty: The Shaping of a Set-Apart Young Woman
― Authentic Beauty: The Shaping of a Set-Apart Young Woman
“She was far too busy living out a passionate romance with Jesus Christ to be pining after an earthly prince.”
― The Lost Art of True Beauty: The Set-Apart Girl's Guide to Feminine Grace
― The Lost Art of True Beauty: The Set-Apart Girl's Guide to Feminine Grace
“When we are passionately in love with our Prince, we put Him above all else--not just in theory, but also practically, in every moment of our day-to-day lives. We do not live for the applause of heaven. Our longings are not for people's approval but only for more and more of Him. We are marked by an effortless, unshakable strength that is found in the presence of our perfect Lover.”
― Authentic Beauty: The Shaping of a Set-Apart Young Woman
― Authentic Beauty: The Shaping of a Set-Apart Young Woman
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