“Was it the act of giving birth that made you a mother? Did you lose that label when you relinquished your child? If people were measured by their deeds, on the one hand, I had a woman who had chosen to give me up; on the other, I had a woman who'd sat up with me at night when I was sick as a child, who'd cried with me over boyfriends, who'd clapped fiercely at my law school graduation. Which acts made you more of a mother?
Both, I realized. Being a parent wasn't just about bearing a child. It was about bearing witness to its life.”
― Handle with Care
Both, I realized. Being a parent wasn't just about bearing a child. It was about bearing witness to its life.”
― Handle with Care
“It was strange, really. A couple months ago, I had thought I couldn’t live without him. Apparently I could.”
― Memoirs of a Teenage Amnesiac
― Memoirs of a Teenage Amnesiac
“She wasn't tracking down her father to learn more about him. She was tracking him down to learn more about herself.”
― The Inner Circle
― The Inner Circle
“My life has been shaped by the decision two people made over 24 years ago. They decided to adopt a child. They got me, and I got a chance at the kind of life all children deserve.”
― Reflections on Motherhood
― Reflections on Motherhood
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