“People like to say love is unconditional, but it's not, and even if it was unconditional, it's still never free. There's always an expectation attached. They always want something in return. Like they want you to be happy or whatever and that makes you automatically responsible for their happiness because they won't be happy unless you are ... I just don't want that responsibility.”
― The Sea of Tranquility
― The Sea of Tranquility
“1. Leverage your strengths. 2. Embrace your weaknesses. 3. Assert your differences. 4. Pursue your passions.”
― 18 Minutes: Find Your Focus, Master Distraction, and Get the Right Things Done
― 18 Minutes: Find Your Focus, Master Distraction, and Get the Right Things Done
“That's the thing about lessons, you always learn them when you don't expect them or want them.”
― If You Could See Me Now
― If You Could See Me Now
“Everyone is driven by three things: 1. Achievement (the desire to compete against increasingly challenging goals) 2. Affiliation (the desire to be liked/loved) 3. Power, expressed in one of two ways: Personalized (the desire for influence and respect for yourself) Socialized (the desire to empower others; to offer them influence and respect)”
― 18 Minutes: Find Your Focus, Master Distraction, and Get the Right Things Done
― 18 Minutes: Find Your Focus, Master Distraction, and Get the Right Things Done
“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.”
― I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings
― I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings
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