“As long as you think that the cause of your problem is “out there”—as long as you think that anyone or anything is responsible for your suffering—the situation is hopeless. It means that you are forever in the role of victim, that you’re suffering in paradise.”
― Loving What Is: Four Questions That Can Change Your Life
― Loving What Is: Four Questions That Can Change Your Life
“Relationships are all about trust and equality. If one person shares, then the other person should share, too.”
― Can You Keep a Secret?
― Can You Keep a Secret?
“No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear.”
― A Grief Observed
― A Grief Observed
Tamara’s 2025 Year in Books
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