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“Love is the will to extend one's self for the purpose of nurturing one's own or another's spiritual growth... Love is as love does. Love is an act of will -- namely, both an intention and an action. Will also implies choice. We do not have to love. We choose to love.”
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M. Scott Peck
“Love is the free exercise of choice. Two people love each other only when they are quite capable of living without each other but choose to live with each other.”
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M. Scott Peck