David Sawatzky

“if life is based on love, the outcomes are either win-win or lose-lose. If you have a scenario with the appearance of a win-lose outcome, then in reality, if one person loses, both lose. The person who believes he wins in a win-lose outcome only deludes himself into thinking he is the winner. In truth, he also loses. Over 99% of respondents to the posed question in the preceding discussion answer accordingly. Therefore, the express anger management methods are destructive, for they are communication styles at high risk for resulting in lose-lose outcomes.”
― M.D. Ralph D. Sinn, Put Your Potatoes On The Desktop - Christian Version