Jin Perla

“Why I'm Not Where You Are”
― Jonathan Safran Foer, Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close

“The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it's not. It is an existential truth: only those people who are capable of being alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another person--without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other. They allow the other absolute freedom, because they know that if the other leaves, they will be as happy as they are now. Their happiness cannot be taken by the other, because it is not given by the other.”
― Osho

“I did not think I should be ever loved: do you indeed
Love me so much as now you say you do?

Ask of the sea-bird if it loves the sea,
Ask of the roses if they love the rain,
Ask of the little lark, that will not sing
Till day break, if it loves to see the day:
And yet, these are but empty images,
Mere shadows of my love, which is a fire
So great that all the waters of the main
Can not avail to quench it.”
― Oscar Wilde, The Duchess of Padua

“The truth is rarely pure and never simple.”
― Oscar Wilde, The Importance of Being Earnest