“Life is very hard. The only people who really live are those who are harder than life itself.”
    
― Woman at Point Zero
  ― Woman at Point Zero
      “Words should not seek to please, to hide the wounds in our bodies, or the shameful moments in our lives. They may hurt, give us pain, but they can also provoke us to question what we have accepted for thousands of years.”
    
― Walking through Fire: The Later Years of Nawal El Saadawi, In Her Own Words
  ― Walking through Fire: The Later Years of Nawal El Saadawi, In Her Own Words
      “True adulthood would mean no longer denying the truth. It would mean feeling the repressed suffering, consciously acknowledging the story remembered by the body at an emotional level, and integrating that story instead of repressing it. Whether contact with the parents can then in fact be maintained will depend on the given circumstances in each individual case. What is absolutely imperative is the termination of the harmful attachment to the internalized parents of childhood, an attachment that, though we call it love, certainly does not deserve the name. It is made up of different ingredients, such as gratitude, compassion, expectations, denial, illusions, obedience, fear, and the anticipation of punishment. Time”
    
― The Body Never Lies: The Lingering Effects of Hurtful Parenting
  ― The Body Never Lies: The Lingering Effects of Hurtful Parenting
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