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“Practice: Awareness Examen The Awareness Examen helps us look for the traces of God’s actions in our daily life. It is usually done in the evening looking back over the day, but you may also use it to pray about any other meaningful period of time (such as a week or a year), or discrete event (such as a meeting or a class). Allow between five and fifteen minutes for this spiritual exercise. This prayer is very flexible. You may use only the roman or italic lines, or you may use the entire prayer.”
― The Way of Discernment: Spiritual Practices for Decision Making
― The Way of Discernment: Spiritual Practices for Decision Making
“Practice: Seeking Spiritual Freedom The importance of desiring to follow God’s call through your decision making cannot be overstated. The attitude of indifference—that is, being willing to choose what God desires over all the other lesser things we might also desire—is the essential starting point for discernment. As indifference takes root in us, it flowers into the spiritual freedom to respond freely to God’s call. This prayer helps you form and deepen your indifference. 1. Ask for God’s Holy Spirit to be with you as you seek to understand what God calls you to do and be. 2. Consider the following statements. Turn them over in your mind, and then allow them to take root in your heart. Speak personally to God about what they mean for your life. Spend enough time on each that it becomes something you believe and accept as your own. —You, God, have created all that is, and are even now creating me, just as I am. —You desire that I become my truest and most authentic self. —You put in me my deepest and most authentic desires, Creator God. I can know what you desire, God, as I ponder and understand these calls of my heart. —Yet some of my desires lead me away from my truest self, where you, O God, dwell. I do not always desire what you desire. 3. Using your own words, ask God to deepen in you the desire for what God desires. 4. Commit yourself, here and in all the subsequent prayer exercises that mark the successive steps of your discernment, to ask for the gift to desire what God desires, and as God’s desire becomes clear, to choose it. 5. Give thanks to God for any new clarity and freedom that comes through this prayer.”
― The Way of Discernment: Spiritual Practices for Decision Making
― The Way of Discernment: Spiritual Practices for Decision Making
“—Ask God to look at your day with you. —What does God show you about your day? —What was important to God from your day? —Talk to God about your day.4”
― The Way of Discernment: Spiritual Practices for Decision Making
― The Way of Discernment: Spiritual Practices for Decision Making
“Practice: Remembering Your Personal History How have your decisions and actions affected the person you are today? This prayer exercise helps you write your personal history of sin and salvation. The purpose is to see yourself as God sees you, not to pass judgment on yourself. If you find yourself slipping into self-judgment, return to the first step and allow your focus to rest again on God’s loving presence with you. 1. Let the silence deepen around you. Ask the God who has known you since you were in your mother’s womb (Ps. 139) to allow you to become aware of God’s loving presence that surrounds you like air. 2. In the presence of this loving God, review your life, simply and humbly noticing what has been. First, without judging yourself, allow the hurtful, isolating, negative, and sinful things you have done (as well as the positive things you avoided doing) to surface in your awareness. Note each of these memories in your journal, and, as you do, offer a simple prayer of sorrow. 3. Next, without judging or congratulating yourself, allow a parallel history to form, this time a history of significant blessings and graces you have received. As you note each of these memories in your journal, offer a simple prayer of gratitude. 4. Looking at these two lists, what would you now like to say to God? Say it in your own way, perhaps writing it in your journal. 5. Listen to God’s words to you: “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be like snow” (Isa. 1:18). “The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases, [God’s] mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning” (Lam. 3:22–23).”
― The Way of Discernment: Spiritual Practices for Decision Making
― The Way of Discernment: Spiritual Practices for Decision Making
“PULLING IT ALL TOGETHER: SEVEN STEPS FOR DISCERNING A DECISION How does one go about making a decision by means of discernment? I propose that discerned decision making proceeds in seven interwoven steps, which represent the components of a decision made by way of discernment. The steps represent a logical progression from the beginning to the end of a decision arrived at through discernment. Events in real life, however, can be less of a straight line and more of a circle; with discernment, you may expect to find that the progression of these steps is less linear than I suggest here. More importantly, some steps must be repeated regularly (1, 4, 6, 7), and some can change midstream (2, 3). Nonetheless, as you’ll discover, these seven steps will always be part of your discernment: 1. Seek spiritual freedom, the inner disposition upon which discernment rests and which creates the climate for discernment. Indeed, without this basic intention of seeking spiritual freedom, discernment collapses into self-assessment, self-improvement, or decision-making techniques—all of which can be good and helpful, but they are not discernment. The”
― The Way of Discernment: Spiritual Practices for Decision Making
― The Way of Discernment: Spiritual Practices for Decision Making
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