“Our life is our prayer. It’s our gift to this universe, and the memories we leave behind when we someday exit this world will be our legacy to our loved ones.”
― Dying To Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing
― Dying To Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing
“When my inner dialogue is telling me that I’m safe, unconditionally loved, and accepted, I then radiate this energy outward and change my external world accordingly.”
― Dying To Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing
― Dying To Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing
“Our life is our prayer. It’s our gift to this universe, and the memories we leave behind when we someday exit this world will be our legacy to our loved ones. We owe it to ourselves and to everyone around us to be happy and to spread that joy around.”
― Dying To Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing
― Dying To Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing
“when I feel an incredible desire for where I want my life to go, I know that if I were to pursue it aggressively, this would only cause me to fight against universal energy. The more effort I have to put into trying to attain it, the more I know that I am doing something wrong. Allowing, on the other hand, doesn’t require effort. It feels more like a release, because it means realizing that since everything is One, that which I intend to get is already mine. The process of allowing happens by first trusting, and then by always being true to who I am. In this way, I will only attract that which is truly mine, and it all happens at the rate I’m comfortable with. I can keep focusing on what worries me or what I think I need or find lacking, and my life won’t move toward what I’d like to experience. It will just stay the way it is now, because I’m paying attention to my fears and what upsets me or leaves me feeling unfulfilled, instead of expanding my awareness by trusting and allowing new experiences. So I can let the picture materialize slower or faster, depending on how quickly I want to let go of my worries and relax into the process.”
― Dying To Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing
― Dying To Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing
“In my NDE state, I realized that the entire universe is composed of unconditional love, and I’m an expression of this. Every atom, molecule, quark, and tetraquark, is made of love. I can be nothing else, because this is my essence and the nature of the entire universe. Even things that seem negative are all part of the infinite, unconditional spectrum of love.”
― Dying To Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing
― Dying To Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing
Bernard’s 2025 Year in Books
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