“What I learned from my generation is to never love too hard. To never show anyone you can’t live without them. It’s always about who can survive without the other while attempting to commit to each other. It’s a very contradicting mindset.”
― Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman
― Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman
“Why was I told in every situation to man up and not cry? I’d manned up all my life and now my strength to stay tough broke down I felt robbed of a remedy to my pain”
― Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman
― Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman
“Some men are afraid of committing because they see themselves in no shape to build a future with someone else. Some are insecure about where they are in life and how far they are from their goals. They don’t want to bring a struggle to the table. They want to be stable and comfortable in life first. They don’t want to feel as if they aren’t man enough. They want to be able to protect and provide without bringing the woman they love into failure with them. To the man stuck in that situation: She loves you, she wants you. The most valuable thing you can give a woman whose heart belongs to you is your time and affection. You are getting in your own way, not your financial status or failures.”
― Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman
― Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman
“The commitment issues in me live not because I am still finding enjoyment in messing around with other women. It’s because the fear of not being man enough reigns in me.”
― Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman
― Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman
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