“A heart still works even when it's broken”
― Fire Shut Up in My Bones: A Memoir
― Fire Shut Up in My Bones: A Memoir
“Who are you trying to protect, punish or please by not succeeding?”
― The Secret Code of Success: 7 Hidden Steps to More Wealth and Happiness – Eliminate Head Trash and Unlock Your Full Potential
― The Secret Code of Success: 7 Hidden Steps to More Wealth and Happiness – Eliminate Head Trash and Unlock Your Full Potential
“Human beings perform best in an environment of unconditional support. That happens when someone looks at you and sees your full capacity, potential, and greatness. That person knows that you can do it, sees that you can do it, and holds you to that.”
― The Secret Code of Success: 7 Hidden Steps to More Wealth and Happiness – Eliminate Head Trash and Unlock Your Full Potential
― The Secret Code of Success: 7 Hidden Steps to More Wealth and Happiness – Eliminate Head Trash and Unlock Your Full Potential
“The central attitudes driving the Player are:
Women were put on this earth to have sex with men—especially me.
Women who want sex are too loose, and women who refuse sex are too uptight. (!)
It’s not my fault that women find me irresistible. (This is a word-for-word quotation from a number of my clients.) It’s not fair to expect me to refuse temptation when it’s all around me; women seduce me sometimes, and I can’t help it.
If you act like you need anything from me, I am going to ignore you. I’m in this relationship when it’s convenient for me and when I feel like it.
Women who want the nonsexual aspects of themselves appreciated are bitches.
If you could meet my sexual needs, I wouldn’t have to turn to other women.”
― Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
Women were put on this earth to have sex with men—especially me.
Women who want sex are too loose, and women who refuse sex are too uptight. (!)
It’s not my fault that women find me irresistible. (This is a word-for-word quotation from a number of my clients.) It’s not fair to expect me to refuse temptation when it’s all around me; women seduce me sometimes, and I can’t help it.
If you act like you need anything from me, I am going to ignore you. I’m in this relationship when it’s convenient for me and when I feel like it.
Women who want the nonsexual aspects of themselves appreciated are bitches.
If you could meet my sexual needs, I wouldn’t have to turn to other women.”
― Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
“Abuse doesn’t come from people’s inability to resolve conflicts but from one person’s decision to claim a higher status than another. So while it is valuable, for example, to teach nonviolent conflict-resolution skills to elementary school students—a popular initiative nowadays—such efforts contribute little by themselves to ending abuse. Teaching equality, teaching a deep respect for all human beings — these are more complicated undertakings, but they are the ones that count.”
― Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
― Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
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