“The formula I've figured out: Stop being so damn picky and let go of the mental image of an ideal; talk to more strangers, because it builds confidence and helps you feel more connected; be open to every opportunity, and when you do meet someone you like, keep dating around. And there's the mother of all lessons-the one I'm still working on: follow your instincts and even if you're wrong about him (or her), you'll know better for the next time.”
― The Science of Single: One Woman's Grand Experiment in Modern Dating, Creating Chemistry, and Finding Love
― The Science of Single: One Woman's Grand Experiment in Modern Dating, Creating Chemistry, and Finding Love
“Does trust have to be earned. Or is it simply a matter of faith?”
― At First Sight
― At First Sight
“There are three ways you can get along with a girl: one, shut up and listen to what she has to say; two, tell her you like what she's wearing; and three, treat her to really good food...If you do all that and still don't get the results you want, better give up.”
― Blind Willow, Sleeping Woman
― Blind Willow, Sleeping Woman
“It was one of those times you feel a sense of loss, even though you didn't have something in the first place. I guess that's what disappointment is- a sense of loss for something you never had.”
― The Nature of Jade
― The Nature of Jade
“There’s nothing like that feeling of waiting for a guy. It’s the loneliest feeling in the world. Holding that cell phone in your hand as you take out the trash, use the bathroom, change the litter box. Fearful that the one second you aren’t looking will be when they call. Pathetic. And something I have done as recently as last week.”
― My Boyfriend Wrote a Book About Me
― My Boyfriend Wrote a Book About Me
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