Karen Sudom
http://www.spectrumes.org/
“One of the great traps of the narcissistic relationship is that the narcissistic folks actually believe they are nice people. They really do. It’s part of their system of delusional grandiosity, self-righteousness, and moral rectitude.”
― It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
― It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
“It was the one where she walked around in her skin and her bones for the rest of her life but her body was never recovered. You know the one.”
― I Have Some Questions For You
― I Have Some Questions For You
“I thought of a friend in La who'd said recently of her own daughter, "It feels wrong to give her all this happiness and confidence when we know what is coming. Seventh grade is going to hit like a wall. It feels like fattening a pig for slaughter." But what was the alternative? Starving the pig?”
― I Have Some Questions for You
― I Have Some Questions for You
“In some ways, grieving the living is far more difficult than grieving the dead.”
― It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
― It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
“The dance between the narcissistic reactive sensitivity to feedback, their need for reassurance and chronic sense that they are a victim, and their shame and subsequent rage at having these vulnerabilities reminds us of the essence of narcissistic relationships: you can’t win.”
― It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
― It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
Karen’s 2025 Year in Books
Take a look at Karen’s Year in Books, including some fun facts about their reading.
More friends…
Favorite Genres
Polls voted on by Karen
Lists liked by Karen















