“Trust your own eyes. Only you can determine what is happening in your life and what to do about it. The”
― Training in Compassion: Zen Teachings on the Practice of Lojong
― Training in Compassion: Zen Teachings on the Practice of Lojong
“Compassion is sympathy for others specifically in the case of their suffering. Although it is uncomfortable, we are willing to feel the suffering of others and to do something about it when we can,”
― Training in Compassion: Zen Teachings on the Practice of Lojong
― Training in Compassion: Zen Teachings on the Practice of Lojong
“The only difference between meditation and non meditation is that when we meditate we are not grasping anything or trying to do anything: instead we are releasing ourselves to our lives, with trust that our lives are all we need. (78)”
― Sailing Home: Using the Wisdom of Homer's Odyssey to Navigate Life's Perils and Pitfalls
― Sailing Home: Using the Wisdom of Homer's Odyssey to Navigate Life's Perils and Pitfalls
“But the whole point of mind training is to promote, to the bottom of our hearts, down to our bones, even to the marrow, the understanding and the feeling that we are not alone in this sadly poignant situation. We are together in it with everyone else. And that makes it beautiful, and even joyful, no matter how hard it may get.”
― Training in Compassion: Zen Teachings on the Practice of Lojong
― Training in Compassion: Zen Teachings on the Practice of Lojong
“Renunciation isn't a moral imperative or a form of self-denial. It's simply cooperation with the way things are: for moments do pass away, one after the other. Resisting this natural unfolding doesn't change it; resistance only makes it painful. So we renounce our resistance, our noncooperation, our stubborn refusal to enter life as it is. We renounce our fantasy of a beautiful past and an exciting future we can cherish and hold on to. Life just isn't like this. Life, time, is letting go, moment after moment. Life and time redeem themselves constantly, heal themselves constantly, only we don't know this, and much as we long to be healed and redeemed, we refuse to recognize this truth. This is why the sirens' songs are so attractive and so deadly. They propose a world of indulgence and wishful thinking, an unreal world that is seductive and destructive. (142)”
― Sailing Home: Using the Wisdom of Homer's Odyssey to Navigate Life's Perils and Pitfalls
― Sailing Home: Using the Wisdom of Homer's Odyssey to Navigate Life's Perils and Pitfalls
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