Robin Schaber

“Denial can be confusing because it resembles sleeping. We’re not really aware we’re doing it until we’re done doing it. Forcing ourselves—or anyone else—to face the truth usually doesn’t help. We won’t face the facts until we are ready. Neither, it seems, will anyone else. We may admit to the truth for a moment, but we won’t let ourselves know what we know until we feel safe, secure, and prepared enough to deal and cope with it.”
― Melody Beattie, The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations on Codependency

“Others do not have our magic. We have our magic. It is in us.”
― Melody Beattie, The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations on Codependency

“...the plan will happen in spite of us, not because of us.”
― Melody Beattie, The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations on Codependency

“The greatest gift we can bring to any relationship wherever we go is being who we are.”
― Melody Beattie, The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations on Codependency