“when I’m prioritizing being liked over being free, I was much sweeter but less authentic. Now I’m kinder and less judgmental. But also firmer and more solid. Occasionally salty.”
― Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience
― Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience
“Emotional honesty, not perfection, is what children truly need from their parents. Children”
― The Danish Way of Parenting: What the Happiest People in the World Know About Raising Confident, Capable Kids
― The Danish Way of Parenting: What the Happiest People in the World Know About Raising Confident, Capable Kids
“Hard work is a prison sentence only if it does not have meaning. Once it does, it becomes the kind of thing that makes you grab your wife around the waist and dance a jig. (150)”
― Outliers: The Story of Success
― Outliers: The Story of Success
“Big Friendship can hold you when you’re worried that everything else is falling apart. It can be a space of validation when you feel alone in the world. It can provide the relief of feeling seen without having to explain yourself in too many words. And it offers the security of knowing that you won’t have to go through life’s inevitable challenges alone.”
― Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close
― Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close
“Every woman I knew seemed to think she was failing in some way, had been raised to believe she was lacking, and was certain someone else was doing it better. Had been told never to trust her own instincts. Taught to think of life as a solution when "done right", when in reality we existed in a kaleidoscope made of shades of gray, able to be very happy and very sad all at the same time.”
― No One Tells You This
― No One Tells You This
Lena’s 2025 Year in Books
Take a look at Lena’s Year in Books, including some fun facts about their reading.
More friends…
Favorite Genres
Polls voted on by Lena
Lists liked by Lena






























