“The structural foundations of traditional manhood--economic independence, geographic mobility, domestic dominance--have all been eroding. The transformation of the workplace--the decline of the skilled worker, global corporate relocations, the malaise of the middle-class manager, the entry of women into the assembly line and the corporate office--have pressed men to confront their continued reliance on the marketplace as the way to demonstrate and prove their manhood.”
― Manhood in America: A Cultural History
― Manhood in America: A Cultural History
“Telling an introvert to go to a party is like telling a saint to go to Hell.”
― Killosophy
― Killosophy
“No matter how exotic or seemingly different another man is, there's always some reflection of self in another male.”
― Androphilia: A Manifesto: Rejecting the Gay Identity, Reclaiming Masculinity
― Androphilia: A Manifesto: Rejecting the Gay Identity, Reclaiming Masculinity
“The great enemy of truth is very often not the lie--deliberate, contrived and dishonest--but the myth--persistent, persuasive and unrealistic. Too often we hold fast to the cliches of our forebears. We subject all facts to a prefabricated set of interpretations. We enjoy the comfort of opinion without the discomfort of thought.
[Commencement Address at Yale University, June 11 1962]”
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[Commencement Address at Yale University, June 11 1962]”
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“If anything has made men more effeminate in the past half-century, it's been the running feminist critique of masculinity.”
― Androphilia: A Manifesto: Rejecting the Gay Identity, Reclaiming Masculinity
― Androphilia: A Manifesto: Rejecting the Gay Identity, Reclaiming Masculinity
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