“Action seems to follow feeling, but really action and feeling go together; and by regulating the action, which is under the more direct control of the will, we can indirectly regulate the feeling, which is not.”
― How to Win Friends & Influence People
― How to Win Friends & Influence People
“And then there were the wallflowers who had recognized for years that the thing was hopeless, who had found in that information a kind of calm. They no longer tried, with a bright and desperate effort, to sustain a conversation with somebody's brother, somebody's usher, somebody's roommate, somebody's roommate's usher's brother... The category of wallflower who had given up on all this was very quiet, not indifferent, only quiet. And she always brought a book.”
― Speedboat
― Speedboat
“Why are you keeping your fists clenched? Open them. Let what comes come. Let what goes go. You deserve much more than what your fists can hold.”
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“People have sex, even the religious ones. Yet, when sex is transferred into words, suddenly it's dirty, vulgar, immoral, trashy. Funny huh?”
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“The secret of the demagogue is to appear as dumb as his audience so that these people can believe themselves as smart as he is.”
― Half-Truths and One-and-a-Half Truths: Selected Aphorisms
― Half-Truths and One-and-a-Half Truths: Selected Aphorisms
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