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“For [erotically intelligent couples], love is a vessel that contains both security and adventure, and commitment offers one of the great luxuries of life: time. Marriage is not the end of romance, it is the beginning. They know that they have years in which to deepen their connection, to experiment, to regress, and even to fail. They see their relationship as something alive and ongoing, not a fait accompli. It’s a story that they are writing together, one with many chapters, and neither partner knows how it will end. There’s always a place they haven’t gone yet, always something about the other still to be discovered.”
― Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic
― Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic
“Prayer is vastly superior to worry. With worry, we are helpless; with prayer, we are interceding. When I hear sad news, I try to say a prayer for the victims. When I am troubled, I will say a prayer that asks for relief for myself and for all those who suffer as I do. When I am concerned about my relatives or friends I say a short prayer to myself - "May they be happy and free of suffering." Book: Seeking Peace: Chronicles of the Worst Buddist in the World”
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“I am weary of all our sad stories—not hearing them, but that we have these stories to tell, that there are so many.”
― Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body
― Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body
“It’s great to remember that reading is my first love.”
― Bad Feminist: Essays
― Bad Feminist: Essays
“The strongest relationships are between two people who can live without each other but don't want to.”
― Marriage Rules: A Manual for the Married and the Coupled Up
― Marriage Rules: A Manual for the Married and the Coupled Up
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