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Henry Cloud
“It is easy to say we love others, but difficult to allow them the freedom inherent in love.”
Henry Cloud, Changes That Heal: Four Practical Steps to a Happier, Healthier You

Henry Cloud
“The sad thing is that many of us come to Christ because we are sinners, and then spend the rest of our lives trying to pretend that we are not!”
Henry Cloud, Changes That Heal: How to Understand the Past to Ensure a Healthier Future

Henry Cloud
“Many people will not be honest because they fear loss of intimacy and togetherness. In reality, honesty brings people closer together, for it will strengthen their identities. The more you realize your separate identities, the closer you can become. Telling loved ones what is really on your mind and telling others what you really think is the foundation of love.”
Henry Cloud, Changes That Heal: How to Understand the Past to Ensure a Healthier Future

Henry Cloud
“Denial of one's need for others is the most common type of defense against bonding. If people come from a situation, whether growing up or later in life, where good, safe relationships were not available to them, they learn to deny that they even want them. Why want what you can't have? They slowly get rid of their awareness of the need.”
Henry Cloud, Changes That Heal: How to Understand the Past to Ensure a Healthier Future

Henry Cloud
“Grace is the first ingredient necessary for growing up in the image of God. Grace is unbroken, uninterrupted, unearned, accepting relationship. It is the kind of relationship humanity had with God in the Garden of Eden. Adam and Eve were loved and provided for. They knew God’s truth, and they had perfect freedom to do God’s will. In short, they were secure; they had no shame and anxiety. They could be who they truly were. Perhaps you have experienced this kind of love and grace with someone. You can be exactly who you are. You do not need to hide your thoughts or feelings; you do not need to perform; you do not need to do anything to be loved. Someone knows the real you, and loves you anyway.”
Henry Cloud, Changes That Heal: Four Practical Steps to a Happier, Healthier You

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