“My theory is that we get depressed because we’re not getting what we want, and we’re not getting what we want because we have never been taught to get what we want. Instead, we’ve been taught to be good little boys and girls and good mothers and fathers. If we’re going to be one of those good things, better get used to being depressed. Depression is the reward we get for being “good.” But, if you want to feel better, I’d like you to clarify what you would like people to do to make life more wonderful for you.”
― Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life
― Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life
“We are dangerous when we are not conscious of our responsibility for how we behave, think, and feel.”
― Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life
― Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life
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