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“It’s funny, how for an entire lifetime we keep thinking ‘How’ will our life-partner look like, how will he be? How will he react to a particular situation? How will he get angry, and how will we love and pamper him? We have so many questions like if he will accept me the way I am? Or if I have to change for him? We all have made plans for our future, subconsciously. We don’t exactly plan out everything with a pen and paper, it’s something that happens automatically, just like an involuntary action. Whenever we are alone and our mood is good, we usually think about our life with our partner. The days and nights in his arms, and the time that we will reserve for him.
But when all that turns into reality, it’s strikingly different. Everything that you thought, seems to be a joke, and life laughs at you from a distance! You are helpless and can’t do anything about it, but have to accept it the way it is. You are totally caught into a web of dilemmas and problems before you realize that this is the time you waited for, and that this is the time you dreamt about! You have to make efforts, compromises, sacrifices and you have to change yourselves too sometimes to make things work.
You can never expect to get a partner exactly the way you thought or dreamt about. It’s always different in reality and it’s always tough to make both ends meet for a relationship to work, but you have to! It’s your relationship, if you won’t work for it, who else will?”
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But when all that turns into reality, it’s strikingly different. Everything that you thought, seems to be a joke, and life laughs at you from a distance! You are helpless and can’t do anything about it, but have to accept it the way it is. You are totally caught into a web of dilemmas and problems before you realize that this is the time you waited for, and that this is the time you dreamt about! You have to make efforts, compromises, sacrifices and you have to change yourselves too sometimes to make things work.
You can never expect to get a partner exactly the way you thought or dreamt about. It’s always different in reality and it’s always tough to make both ends meet for a relationship to work, but you have to! It’s your relationship, if you won’t work for it, who else will?”
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Sep 27, 2015 07:37AM
Derin mesajlar içermektedir ;)
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İşte tamam alıntı güzel de kafama takılan şu: " Have to ". " Have to " ile iş yürür mü?:)
Düşündüm de:) bunu herhangi bir zorunluluk olarak görmenin pek bir faydası yok, yorucu olur o zaman. Bence fedakarlıkta bulunmayı ve / veya karşıdaki insanı yeri gelince dengeleyebilmeyi istemek önemli bu konuda. Yoksa bu sizin ilişkiniz yürütmek zorundasınız demek... Bilemiyorum ya ben asıl şu an bu sözü o an niye beğendiğimi düşünüyorum.:) Sanırım " but you have to." kısmına kadar hoşuma gitti söz.:)
Bence ikimiz içinde önemli şeyler var içinde ;) Yapılması gereken çok şey var aslında, yaşayalım ve görelim :)
Yoksa bu yazı başta ' Aslında sadece kendinizi, kendi isteklerinizi, onun için kendinizin ne yapacağını düşünüp bunun hayalini kuruyorsunuz." mu diyor?:) Öyle bile olsa, iki kişi de bazı şeyleri aşmak istese bana iyi bir ilişki olur gibi geliyor, benim demek istediğim bunu have to kalıbına sokmak pek doğru değil.:) Ya var ya kendi beğendiğim sözde her şey karman çorman oldu Gül görüyor musun?:)
İste benim arkadaşım ;) Nasıl ifade edildiği önemli değil, ama yapılırsa her şey daha iyi olur diyelim ;)
