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Experiment with changing/challenging your beliefs

How?

By accepting the fact that ***you don’t know what you’re talking about***

Test new hypotheses

Paraphrase: Don’t marry until you’ve done everything you can, and until you’ve stopped loving the woman, until you can see her clearly

“Nothing is so necessary for a young man as the company of intelligent women”

Gratitude radiates creative energy


Complaints, requests, and demands 1. Create excess potential and delay action resulting in concentration of energy , 2. Are the creations of pendulums aimed at harvesting energy

Cause of all problems = Projected excessive importance

Dude chapter fucking 4 is cooking: my manipulator behaviors, apologizing as a means of virtue signaling etc must re read

Money is neither the goal nor the means to achieving the goal, just an accompanying attribute. One’s own goal is the focus

Ignore, not avoid the frequency. Let it pass by

Everything you encounter should be treated like paintings in a display at an exhibition

Need to break free from the pendulum of beautiful Latinas around me lol

Chapter 2

Some political leaders are obviously super aware of pendulums and how positive or negative swings don’t really matter all that matters is giving them attention!!

Chapter 1: The only freedom we really have is the freedom of choice

Yo mazalie is coming drucella up!!! Haha

Chapter 162 and the last few chapters just hit so perfectly and comfortably

I had maybe the best conversation with a stranger today omw from atl to Knoxville and I’m hopeful that she’ll message me and despair is running circles around and this book reminded me that despair and hope are twins just like her and me. Hi angely

“Fortune i do not want; employment i do not want; consequence i do not want.”

Girl same minus employment is nice as long as it’s chill ;)

“I was happy in the various company of my friends and, my heart filled with Amy memories of the past, I regained in spirit, at least something of the glow of youth. I thought I should be a fool to allow work to interfere with a delight in the passing moment that I might never enjoy again so fully.”

Relatable

As resonant lines to me have seldom been written, another is where Emma says she doesn’t wanna work

I’m just like emmas dad for real, hate change, cry when people go, etc

Childishness comes almost as naturally to a man as to a child

Hehe

I just tonight learned of the word homie-sexual and tchitchikov and manilov are giving it with their arm in arm walk to the court for the deeds etc

Only by playing the role of your enemy does your opponent become your true friend

Makes me think about the concept of lila - a spontaneous play organized by the creator with humans as the play things/actors

Leave self 1 behind!!

10% through lolita and what was nabakov i mean humbert on bruh

Listening to audiobook read by an emma and I was so confused

Threesomes mostly

We can all be the love we seek is giving you are the one you’ve been waiting for dr. Richard Schwartz of IFS , Might consider re reading that too

Love isn’t about showing up in a particular way but about embodying the feeling itself

If I’m constantly focused on how I measure up to others or society’s standards, suppressing my authentic needs in the process, how can anyone around me have the opportunity to connect with the real me?

To change how we relate to others and experience our relationships, we first have to change how we relate to and experience ourselves which is related to how others related to us and experienced us early on - eg my mom had me cause she was bored

Chapter 8. Why am I reading this again?

A pretentious text written by a man who cannot control his emotions, a la moie on my yt channel today