"What would my telling them I’m queer achieve? My parents would see it as a failure of their parenting. I could never do that to these people who birthed me, who left their families to build a more comfortable life for me in a country where they didn’t know anyone and didn’t even know the language. I wouldn’t be able to be there for them as they struggled with the knowledge of my queerness."
….ouch
— Oct 22, 2025 11:17AM
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