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“We second generation immigrants have the privilege of self-actualisation. We make sculptures, direct films, write plays, novels, memoirs and poems about not having a home, of trying to find a home, of being between two types of home, what is home, of how we all feel ugly, of the mixed relationships we enter into with white people, losing our language from a culture we had a tenuous hold of in the first place.”

"Research by Debby Herbenick in 2015 found that 30 percent of women report pain during vaginal sex, and 72 percent during anal sex. Women's expectations are, moreover, upsettingly low; Herbenick told jouranlist Lili Loofbourow in 2018 that when women speak of 'good sex,' they tend to mean an absence of pain, while men mean reaching orgasm." (p. 25)