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¿Qué quiere decir para siempre?

“Clara no puede sino colmar las expectativas de ese ser humano contemporáneo, cada vez menos capaz de crecer y paradójicamente más necesitado de trascendencia”

Then one will also recognize that while one is consciously afraid of not being loved, the real, though usually unconscious fear is that of loving. To love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love.

Only the person who has faith in himself is able to be faithful to others, because only he can be sure that he will be the same at a future time as he is today and, therefore, that he will feel and act as he now expects to.

The main condition for the achievement of love is the overcoming of one’s narcissism

Modern man has exceedingly little self-discipline outside of work. When he does not work, he wants to "relax." This very wish for laziness is largely a reaction against the routinization of life. Just because man is forced for eight hours a day to spend his energy for purposes not his own, in ways not his own, but prescribed for him by the rhythm of the work, he rebels this takes the form of infantile self-indulgence

Can anything be learned about the practice of an art, except practicing it?

Love, experienced thus, is a constant challenge; it is not a resting place, but a moving, growing, working together; even whether there is harmony or conflict, joy or sadness, is secondary to the fundamental fact that two people experience themselves from the essence of their existence, that they are one with each other by being one with themselves, rather than by fleeing from themselves.

Love is possible only if two persons communicate with each other from the center of their existence, hence if each one of them experiences himself from the center of his existence. Only in this "central ex-perience" is human reality, only here is aliveness, only here is the basis for love.

Love as mutual sexual satisfaction, and love as
"teamwork" and as a haven from aloneness, are the two "normal" forms of the disintegration of love in modern Western society.

One of the most significant expressions of love, and especially of marriage with this alienated structure, is the idea of the "team." This description is not too different from the idea of a smoothly functioning employee; he should be "reasonably independent," co-operative, tolerant, and at the same time ambitious and aggressive.

who can be guided without force, led without leaders, prompted without aim-except the one to make good, to be on the move, to function, to go ahead.

Modern capitalism needs men who co-operate smoothly, and in large numbers; who want to consume more and more; and whose tastes are standardized and can be easily influenced and anticipated. It needs men who feel free and independent, not subject to any authority or principle or conscience-yet willing to be commanded, to do what is expected of them, to fit into the social machine without friction;

The only way in which the world can be grasped última lies, not in thought, but in the act, in the experience of oneness

fatherly vs. motherly love !!!

The development of patriarchal society goes together with the development of private property

"If you love yourself, you love everybody else as you do yourself. As long as you love another person less than you love yourself, you will not really succeed in loving yourself, but if you love all alike, including yourself, you will love them as one person and that person is both God and man. Thus he is a great and righteous person who, loving himself, loves all others equally."

In a culture in which these qualities are rare, the attainment of the capacity to love must remain a rare achievement. Or—anyone can ask himself how many truly loving persons he has known.

PFFF no querías empezar más leve Erich?

… unless he tries most actively to develop his total personality, so as to achieve a productive orientation; that satisfaction in individual love cannot be attained without the capacity to love one’s neighbor, without true humility, courage, faith and discipline.

THE READING OF THIS book would be a disappointing experience for anyone who expects easy instruction in the art of loving. This book, on the contrary, wants to show that love is not a sentiment which can be easily indulged in by anyone, regardless of the level of maturity reached by him. It wants to convince the reader that all his attempts for love are bound to fail…