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Fett am heulen und ich weiss nicht ob es aus Wut gegenüber dem System ist oder aus Trauer für all die Migra kids, welche von dem System gefailed worden sind

I really do not understand how she says previously that Sex workers are so iconic 🤪 and then continues to say that Porn is a HUGE reason on why rape culture is such a big thing (which I agree with its just doesn’t add up to what she said before)

Really hated this chapter. These rules for dating are stupid. Different people have different situations/feelings/ reasonings. You cant just claim there is one solution & one reason for everyone. Literally quoting Bojack Horseman but not considering the POV of ppl with mood disorders/ personality disorders is crazy but not surprising for someone that slaps the label „narcissist“ on people that behave shitty.

„If they have you doubting yourself this much, you’re more than likely dealing with a narcissist.“ OR just a shitty person. The villainisation of narcissism especially in a book dedicated to validation IS NOT IT. stop slapping that label onto anyone who just sucks bc thats not what narcissism is.

„Sex workers are not the enemy of progress they are in fact exploiting the system built to oppress them and that this alone is iconic as fuck“
Is it tho? SW should not be shamed but its def not a feminist movement if its build on catering towards the male gaze and often happens out of necessity. Not to mention how harmful the way some women portray themselves in this field is. Literally just to cater towards men